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Admin	dating??? Posted : 19 Jan, 2010 11:36 PM so recently i went on a date with a nice guy....i met him through a friend and it was the first time we had met in person.....the conversation went well and he even asked me on a second date....what i dont understand is why he has not called me after that night??? if he was not interested then why as for a 2nd date??? he knew what i looked liked b4 we went out so it was not like it was a blind date or anything......so tell me what do u think??? Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 20 Jan, 2010 08:59 AM Maybe he is just about dating right now to see what happens. Maybe he doesn't feel like a phone is needed right now. Wait for the second date...if after that he doesn't call you or at least contacts you by some way, maybe then you should see whats going on. I would say you don't have anything to worry about. Maybe he is in fact just dating right now and as soon as he gets his "date plan" figured out he'll call. Just my thoughts, no expert here!! Haha! Good Luck though! Post Reply
View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 20 Jan, 2010 10:20 AM Boys at your age (and I say "boys" because that's what they still are) are easily distracted by pretty much anything...even their navels. Who's to say that he even remembers what he said to you. I would not place a whole lot of importance on him calling you back and then if he does you could be pleasantly (or unpleasantly) surprised. You have done nothing wrong. Unfortunately..."boys will be boys". It is something you must get used to and figure out someway to deal with it. Also when a "real man" shows up -- Pay attention! Peace Post Reply
View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 20 Jan, 2010 11:06 AM I'd say be direct and ask him what the deal is. Nothing wrong with that. Then you'll know. Post Reply
View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 20 Jan, 2010 11:10 AM dear lids, just understand its not you or anything you did as it sounds like yawl had a nice date.. and though he shouldnt of asked you for a second date if he wasnt gonna take you on one.. remember guys dont even understand themselves sometimes hehe dont let one person affect the way you feel about you.. dont give anyone that kind of power over you.. just know that you are a nice catch and he just lost out.. ole cattle Post Reply
cherished2 View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 20 Jan, 2010 09:25 PM I agree with Cattle.... you are a catch. (Heavens, just look in the mirror, sweetie!) He might just be nervous because he liked you more than he thought he would.... and he is trying to play those feelings down. Sometimes those strong emotions are a little hard for a guy to process!! Post Reply
View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 01:51 AM I say ask your father what he thinks of this guy. If you're not ready to get married don't date. *shrugs* if you're not able to buy a car you don't go sitting in all the parked cars at the used car lot. I don't think this guy is looking for a wife, I won't assume what your intentions are. Best advice I can give, ask your father to be the mediator between you and any would be suitors. If they'll approach your dad then they mean business. Respectfully, RightKnight Post Reply
Prov31_Lady View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 06:02 AM I know this is ask a guy, but I wanted to agree with the guys' answers based on my experience. One time I met a guy and he asked me out to a movie. We exchanged numbers and then he called the next day to arrange the date, but our schedules didn't line up that weekend. He said he's call the following week to try again and I never heard back from him . . . so, boys are just boys sometimes :( that's the way it is Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	dating??? Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 09:10 AM Is the date still on and he just hasn't called you, or did he stand you up? I know I have trouble calling because I'm afraid I'll interrupt something...but I have a little bit of a problem with thinking I'm not worth interrupting someones day. Don't know if that's this guys problem, but it could be. :peace::peace: Post Reply