Author	Thread: Body Language....that give off Signals
Admin	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 12 Jan, 2010 07:27 PM Since this is a dating site I had run across a few things I found that was interesting on go ogle search . The site gives you a few ideas of what the expert claims that holds true. It is a general example of a few body actions a person normally does and it provides the definition or he meaning of the body action of a person."Body Language" I found that a few suggested they can tell the type of person you are by your walk. Has anyone ever run across this? I would like to know what others think about this and if you have done this yourself. In my own opinion I think that it put you in a level that really is not certain. I don't think I would rely on it myself. GivenLife Post Reply
View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 12 Jan, 2010 07:39 PM When men felt intimidated or cornered during conflicts, they will fold their arms across their chest which acts as a protective barrier of sort. Men in serious thought will stroke their chin; when in deep complex thought will pinch the bridge of their nose; and when in frustration will pull their hair or clench their fist. I left this as an example of one of the body language I read. I would like to know if this can hold true to you. Post Reply
jimmypeters27 View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 04:57 AM Yes this is somewhat true. We do this unconsciencely not aware that we are doing it. When you are attracted to someone do you find yourself touching your hair or at silly jokes unconsciencely. Many men may be able to hide it a little but there is always something there. Most men just smile real big when you look at them or try to keep eye contact for longer than what would be normal. Post Reply
View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 07:19 AM You may laugh but this is so true.My one cat when I put her out of the door of my bedroom puts her tail straight up in the air.Then she struts away like she is the queen.Only Leo struts of my 3 cats with her tail up in the air.Yes,we do send messages by our bodies.Dennis Post Reply
View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 07:37 AM Of course it's not the only thing i really on but i do keep it in mind when trying to judge peoples intentions. I usually notice where people's feet are pointing, especially if it's toward an exit or anything other than me. Eyes are another big thing. Eye contact or lack there of, if they're roving, if they're relaxed, if the eye brows are raised. Which way the body is leaning: forward, back, to the side. Arm movement, if they're rigid or move freely. Just things that stick out to me when i'm not even really looking for them. Post Reply
View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 07:48 AM dear folks, yep there are many given signs on body language.. and jimmy welcome to the forums. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 07:58 AM There is a whole science dedicated to Body Language (different cultures have different ways or means of expressing themselves through body language). Eye contact is the primary means -- body "lean" is another -- closness to the other person and positioning of arms are some other indicators. Flowers and Candies are still the best indicators. Post Reply
View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 13 Jan, 2010 07:31 PM are you aware that body language can be controlled and used when having conversations, etc.? I certainly use some and also control others (folding of arms over chest, when i really feel like it)... i know there are classes offered to train one's body language. The one that i use in business discussion with "men" is NOT to nod my head when they are talking. Men take that as agreement when women do it; whereas women do it for acknowledgement of the point he is making (not necessarily agreeing with him). Their usual reaction is to explain again, and then ask if i agree. Also, i don't 100% believe in the languages the body shares since there are influences caused by cultural diversity, family order, and so forth. Post Reply
skinnywhiteboy View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 21 Jan, 2010 07:19 AM I believe body language speaks volumes!!!! Sit and people watch at a place that has both tables and a "bar" area. I love to watch couples out on dates, especially the girl, being that I'm a guy. I watch for "slouch" on her part, I think it's a sign of acceptance. You can also look at a bar, and imagine how each person is feeling by how they sit. The women, if they're not being paid any attention, will often disappear into a cell phone. Men will rest their head on their hands if it's been a long day. Whereas some will put a knee up on the bar, and just watch tv all day. Post Reply
sdsurfgirl View Profile History	Body Language....that give off Signals Posted : 22 Jan, 2010 08:16 PM Be aware that eye contact is not a great indicator of anything. In parts of Japan you should only look at people when you are speaking then you should look away when being spoken to, as a sign of respect. And autistic people worldwide have difficulty making any eye contact at all, whereas people with down syndrome may stare into your eyes for hours if they are interested in you. Children make inappropriate eye contact all the time which can be misinterpreted and most people make prolonged eye contact while listening to their ipods without even realizing that they are making eye contact. Eye contact and human behavior are some of my favorite subjects. Body language and people watching can be fun but be aware that not everyone is trying to send signals and some signals can be misinterpreted. Direct communication and being really specific is the best way to get a "clear signal". Post Reply