Author	Thread: Im finding it hard..
southerngrace09 View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 01:54 PM to connect with people on this site... Post Reply
View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 04:25 PM Marie, Read your profile. I don't understand why you'd have any problem. If I was just 3 years younger I'd "hit you up". Posting comments here on the Forum is one way of getting exposure...except that it would be mostly "old Coots" reading them. If you are looking for Fellowship...well this is the place. As for "connecting"...I'm not sure what that means...now Ole Cattle is a pretty "hip" younger man that might be able to give you better advice and there are some very smart ladies on here also....so....I'll just mosey on out of here. Peace By the way...Welcome! Post Reply
View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 04:38 PM dear southern, i have to agree with arch there. and arch nuttin hip here im old school lol.. ole cattle Post Reply
southerngrace09 View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 04:39 PM thanks Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 07:56 PM Hey! Who you callin' an old coot!? :nahnah::nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 16 Dec, 2009 11:11 PM Sorry Don't...I meant "Old Poops". Post Reply
Tarasye View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 17 Dec, 2009 03:32 AM or is that old pooch? Old Dogs, maybe Arch? lol Post Reply
david3by9 View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 17 Dec, 2009 12:50 PM Getting to know someone on the internet is not like real life. It is just a place where we are introduced to people. True relationship happens only in real life, so the potential for connection is there, you just have to see it as means to an end, not connection itself. It is a tool that can be used for your benefit. Post Reply
Devotedlove47^ View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 23 Dec, 2009 04:12 PM Hi southern, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year!!! Read you profile,and saw you pic. The first few things that really catch my eye when viewing profiles, is whether or not the lady is a drinker or smoker, and then the type of relationship she's looking for. If she drinks or smokes, then knowing me personally, and what I am looking for in life, I probably would not contact her due to those habits. This may be a turn off to some of the young guys here, who are really passionate about their faith, and the woman in their life. I am seeking a partner who values her health, and that is #1 priority for me. This may be turning a few guys away from you, especially if they had someone close to them die from drunk driving, or lung cancer from cigarette abuse. Just thought you should be aware of that. Also, your choice of the pic with the drink in your hand, may come across that drinking with friends socially, means alot to you. This could be another turn off. If that is not #1 for you, then you might want to show that radiant smile :glow: in another setting. That comment about not being needy, and not liking needy people, can come across as being a little self righteous and judgmental, so you might want to elaborate a little bit more on that comment, so as to not be taken the wrong way. I hope this may have helped you, and wish you the best of success in your quest to find godly friends, which to me, you have found thus far in the people you have met. Grace be you in Jesus name !!!! Post Reply
Randy54156 View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 23 Dec, 2009 06:24 PM Why not try afew other single sites..E-harmony, your local or nearby churches, plenty of fish (1-word) As cute as your are, you'd have no problem going to your local mormon church and converting all the good looking guys into christians, then you'd be doing your friends a favor too. Post Reply
fancythat View Profile History	Im finding it hard.. Posted : 6 Dec, 2010 09:51 AM Getting to know someone at a bible study is really great. It's so true that we aren't motivated to take the initial step on an online forum because we're not in "real time" with the person. The Lord says some biblical principles about remarriage that aren't followed in the church today and we all need to pray for Him to be honored in our lives first and foremost. Divorce is permitted for a couple reasons however, not many people understand the biblical principles for remarriage. Praying for wisdom myself. Post Reply