Author	Thread: Do you think a woman should approach you?
Admin	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 06:28 PM Does a girl have to work as hard as a guy does initiating a relationship/friendship? And if not, how do you feel about a girl asking for your number? Does it make her less/more attractive? don't you all respond at once.... Nyanda! :waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 06:38 PM dear nyanda, welcome to the forums.. as for me im a little old fashioned i recon so id not mind her hinting , say little subtle hints..that she wanted me to call her .. but id much prefer to ask for her number instead.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 07:21 PM Ok. I respect your opinion. And to some extent i think it may be the way to go, since the guy has to make up his mind. At the same time, with my personality.... if someone's profile prompts questions i can't help but ask! and ask i do... thanks for your reply :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 07:38 PM dear nyanda, ahhh askin questions is cool as thats just bein friendly.. askin for a phone number is takin it to another level hehe.. ole cattle Post Reply
david3by9 View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 07:46 PM Traditionally men are suppose to lead, yet how does a man know that a woman is interested online. In 3D there are visible clues that show a woman's interest even though she doesn't have to initiate. So my question to you would be how do you show a man your interested if you don't say something, that is if you are interested? Post Reply
View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 08:07 PM Hi Naynda, And welcome to the Forum. I saw your photo of you with a surfboard. Is it an electrical one...because I see what looks like an extension cord dangling from it? That's so cool! Isn't it a little dangerous? Your question: My opinion is You Shouldn't Have To. If they are interested and have any kind of self-esteem they will contact you. If they are not....I don't think you are going to change their minds online. In the "real" world it usually is not that difficult to tell if a guy is interested -- you just have to gauge how much drool is coming out of his mouth. Also the glassy eyed -- wide open -- slack jawed,"ah huh"(when you ask them a question), is a dead give away. Even if you just wanted to be friendly -- you have to be careful how you phrase your intoduction. But then again...what do I know...it might be different with you X..Y..Z(which one are you guys?) generation. Peace Post Reply
View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 08:30 PM Dear David3?? :) Lol, what a paradox...my shabby attempt to unravel it would include some strategies...not really... i'll just message him. That is the only valid way that would adequately convey my curiosity; for example if i come across a profile that begins with," i am very shy and i do not make the first move" (i'm not saying that i have *looks around the room*). The first thing that pops into my head is...why? And after reading further, if intrigued, i will proceed to address the latter in a letter, lol. I do not proposition men though, i'm simply curious most of the time. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 08:38 PM Dear Archimedes ! LMAO!! :laugh:, no that is a chord fixed to the ankle so that one does not get easily separated from his/her surfboard. You have valid points, and generations should not matter, as children of God are not held to changing standards. Maybe i should have made it clear that it was strictly for online purposes, i would not approach a guy in real life, for the same reasons you mentioned, women know. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 4 Dec, 2009 08:41 PM Dear cattleman, I don't think i would have the courage to ask a guy for his phone number. As another reply rightfully said, if he were interested and had any self esteem he would ask for mine. So you are right. Post Reply
eric198375 View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 6 Dec, 2009 11:46 PM Sometimes guys are a little clueless to girls who are interested in them. Many of us feel like this puts us in a guessing game. Does she like me? I like to think that I can pick up on clues but I've struck out twice in the past few months. So in conclusion, I wouldn't mind at all if a girl asked for my phone number. My dad said something with quite a bit of truth to it on Thanksgiving. He said that guys would like to think that we pick the girl, but in reality, the girl picks us. Post Reply
Tarasye View Profile History	Do you think a woman should approach you? Posted : 7 Dec, 2009 01:35 AM Truly Eric, if it were that simple, I think we ladies would have had that figured out a long time ago! Last I checked, it was all still pretty mutual, and if you think I'm off on that, imagine the most obnoxious woman you know having a crush on you, and tell me that would not be just a little scary. Tarasye Post Reply

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