Author	Thread: HONEST input?
Admin	HONEST input? Posted : 1 Dec, 2009 08:42 PM Hi everyone! I just wanted some inpt from the men on here about whether or not I should message someone I'd like to get to know, or just send a wink. I've tried both ways, but am not really sure which is better. I haven't really gotten any responses from messages, but at the same time I'm not exactly sure what "message" sending a wink gives.....Help? Suggestions? Post Reply
View Profile History	HONEST input? Posted : 1 Dec, 2009 08:44 PM or maybe is there something I could do to my profile to make it more "appealing"? I appreciate your help in advance :) Thanks!! Post Reply
View Profile History	HONEST input? Posted : 1 Dec, 2009 09:54 PM dear adriana, im not much on winks.. send a message is much better.. but dont say alot either. just a simple hi how are you or so.. you dont wanna come off as if you are pursueing him.. leave the door open so he believes that he pursued you first.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	HONEST input? Posted : 1 Dec, 2009 10:18 PM Thanks for your advice cattleman, I will definitely keep that in mind!! It's very helpful :) Post Reply
View Profile History	HONEST input? Posted : 2 Dec, 2009 12:35 PM Yeah, winks are mostly frowned upon. The majority of people like messages. It starts up a conversation at least if the person wants a conversation. Cattle Man always has good advice, haha. Post Reply
View Profile History	HONEST input? Posted : 2 Dec, 2009 02:01 PM dear brutha, hey man its good to see you back.. hope all is well and good with ya.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	HONEST input? Posted : 2 Dec, 2009 03:37 PM Thanks brutha...with that said i'll now do my best to stay away from winks, and keep messages short and simple! Post Reply
RamblinReck89 View Profile History	HONEST input? Posted : 9 Dec, 2009 04:51 PM I agree with sending messages, but I'm actually put off by the basic "Hey, what's up?" A comment or two about my profile lets me know that you actually put effort into it. On a related note, when replying to a guy's message, please actually make conversation. Only answering my questions makes me feel like I'm interviewing you instead of having a conversation with you. Post Reply