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rbj66 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 20 May, 2025 07:04 AM What is your opinion on a woman here who says they don't want to date? I read one even willing to relocate . Are they confused or just got hooked into filling this out without thinking? I'll ask women similar but i know this has been asked before. Post Reply
JamesEG View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 20 May, 2025 03:34 PM Different people seek different things. As long as one communicates one's intentions regarding "friendship only," I don't see it as a problem. The more friends one has the better. Typically, I find the reverse to be the case. Women (and men) seek to rush into a romantic relationship too quickly. Post Reply
rbj66 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 24 May, 2025 06:40 AM Thanks for reply, but what i am saying is you don't put "willing to relocate" in your profile if you only want to be friends. I had a woman chatting it up and i told her look, your kind of cute, this is a dating site, and i love to flirt. My intentions here are to do that. She was on a rebound and did not want to be flirted with unless she wanted to be flirted with. We parted after that. Women 🙄😄. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 24 May, 2025 01:15 PM I hate to break it to you rbj66, but had she found you attractive she would have been begging for your flirtatious attention. Post Reply
JamesEG View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 27 May, 2025 11:00 AM You make a good point. But the question about "willing to relocate" doesn't state "willing to relocate for a romantic partner," so it can be interpreted to mean a person is willing to relocate for other reasons: climate, cost of living, etc. Post Reply
Joanna03 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 15 Jun, 2025 09:34 PM I agree. Some Christian men want to kiss on the first meeting rather than taking time to get to know you which can be a bit premature and make it more complicated.. Post Reply

LoveWins99 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 17 Jun, 2025 10:29 AM I would lean towards the person is talking about willing to relocate for someone that has been intended for them. Someone mentioned they would have said something different if they felt attracted to you. Not necessarily, they may have not been interested in the profile. There are so many variations that can be happening. Thanks everyone for your posts. Post Reply
rbj66 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 21 Jun, 2025 08:43 AM Handy, i don't think you understand my pont and you probably don't care either, but the point was she's on a dating site personally chatting but didn't want to be flirted with. What did she think would happen? Feel free to be brutally honest as usual, but i am surprised you didn't take a shot at women as you clearly hate them Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 29 Jun, 2025 10:15 PM A number of people don't want to date. Many people want to skip dating and just go to friendship or intimacy. If a woman posts that she just wants friends, then perhaps she just wants friends. If she does not post that she just wants friends, then writes you that she wants only to be friends, that means she has no sexual interest in you. Therefore, there is no future for the relationship. Many wives want friendship only. They don't want their husbands to touch them. What a bargain. Our objectives may be different. Hard to find one on the same page. How close do we align with anyone here? But there is a virtual babe for you in the future. One that is almost real. Post Reply
Cuzzie1 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 7 Aug, 2025 09:20 PM Each person that sats friends but also willing to relocate will have their own reason for that and may be different from person to person so best to ask them. One reason might be that they want someone who is serious about them and court them with a view to marriage as opposed to just datimg. So they want to be friends only till both sides know enough about each other to decide whether they want to.persue a relationship with a view to marriage. That way friends is right coz thats how yhey wish to start and willing to relocate can also be correct. but to know for sure its best to ask as thats just one possibility. . Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Friends only? Posted : 9 Aug, 2025 11:32 AM Rbj66 are you a woman pretending to be a man? Because it's women who like to gaslight when someone points out a truth they don't like. Also there's never been any hate in my heart for women. However I do hate and despise their actions when they follow Satan. Women following Satan is done under the guise of feminism, liberalism and taken to the extreme. Murdering babies. I don't actually believe you're a woman. I do see you as a simp which puts you low on the masculine scale. You're not willing to be totally truthful with women because you want something from them. You even went so far as to say I hate women thinking it will win you brownie points with them. But it won't because they also see you as a simp. As a man I understand the desire to have a mate, but I'm not going to lie to get one or keep one. You're not alone because most men are unwilling to be truthful with women for various reasons. Husbands & boyfriends lie to their significant others to avoid the wrath that they will almost certainly be imposed on them if they're honest. Single men who serious about finding a relationship will also lie in the hopes convincing a woman that he's a nice guy but nice guys aren't what women are looking for. Then there are those who just want to bed a women. They will lie about anything and most women fall for it because these guys tell them what they want to hear. Women are lied to from everywhere including most Churches. Men desire to love idealistically. We want to think and see the best in them, but that's not the reality of what's going on with women and how destructive they have become. The worst are women who masquerade as a traditional scripture following Christians. They typically ignore what the Bible says about how a woman should act and instead follow what feminism tells them. You might think that's an exaggeration but I challenge you to find a "Christian woman" on this site or in most Churches that will follow: Ephesians 5:22-24, 1 Peter 3:1 Colossians 3:18, to name a few. Oh some may claim to, but if you dig into just what they will actually do. Submission from them will only happen as long as they agree with you. So if there's a disagreement then it's her way or the highway. This site and many others are full of women who divorced because they were unwilling to submit and if they didn't submit before they're not going to start now. And last but not least: I understood exactly the point you were trying to make. It's you who didn't understand mine so I will explain a little bit about how women operate. They do this thing where they make rules for men they don't find attractive and break rules for those they do. So it doesn't matter what she said because if she found you attractive she would have flirted up a storm with you. Women also do this with S-E-X. They will jump into bed right away with a Chad or a Tyrone but withhold it when it comes to those that don't excite like the others do. And yes that includes most "Christian women". Is that brutally honest enough for you? Post Reply