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Handyman62

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What do modern women bring to the relationship table?
Posted : 26 Oct, 2024 03:00 PM

These are the some of the most common attributes that modern women exhibit when it comes to relationships and beyond. There are of course some exceptions to the rule and are not reflected here. If someone has something to add whether male or female them please chime in.



Physical beauty

unrealistic expectation

inability to control emotions

emotions over logic

Hypergamy

Self before family

Feminist ideals above God's ideals

Double standards

Fiends and self before Husband

Self over children

Give destructive advice to other women.

Doubles down on falsehoods

Little to no accountability.

Happily listens to Satan's sweet nothings rather than Bible scriptures

Attention from others above all else to boost ego

Looks for another man at the drop of a hat

Divorces at the drop of a hat

Routinely blames men for problems she creates

Self imposed neurosis

Grossly overinflates her value in the relationship

Believes erroneously what she values men also value

Could care less what a man wants or needs

Far more masculine than feminine

Unwilling to assume the submissive role God ordained her for

Loves opportunistically

Expect men to rescue them from all their poor choices: (promiscuity, illegitimate children, divorces, debt, ect....)

No appreciation for Men's God given value

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Posted : 2 Nov, 2024 03:25 AM

It is nothing else but a reversal of God's original order at the garden of Eden. God created her for the man and not vice versa, she was created as a help meet from his rib not to be trampled underfoot but neither to control him as the head. If Biblical rules and laws were in effect today, the big majority of them would be stoned for we know what the Bible says in Deuteronomy about a maid playing the immoral woman (censored by CDFF) in her father's house. But of course we are all sinners and in need for forgiveness but women nowadays are selfish and seeking power. They want to get their revenge on men and listen to all sorts of fake destructive ideologies taught by ungodly universities about how the white Christian man is not only their oppressor but he has also oppressed other races through the course of history. If Satan can deceive the woman and cause her to attack the man, it is a great victory for him, a great attack on the family and the fabric of Christian society as a whole. The problem is even Christian women do not accept some of the Biblical principles of submission considering them offensive, basically just saying, we are not going to do it because we don't like it despite it being God's word. It is one of the reasons I don't go to my church anymore. What is more they want us Christian conservative men to remain isolated and to die out eventually. For Satan to knows how much we need women - God's word is very powerful when he says - it is not good for the man to be alone. I have seen one or two white conservative girls here and they get so much attention from men, it is overwhelming. Because not every so called Christian girl here has christian values. So they getting so much attention shows me to how discriminated Christian men even in America really are in the relationships field. Even the men who would not abuse with the women, leave them pregnant and run away, simply because they want to maintain their identity and God given dignity. That's it.

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Posted : 5 Dec, 2024 02:47 PM

Well said again gentlemen. Unfortunately these are true. It appears to be getting worse and worse as time goes on. It is moving towards the days of Noah.

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Posted : 3 Mar, 2025 12:54 AM

modern women in at least in the west are Prima donna. that what get form reports form other men. they are spoiled rotten. though I do not counter a lot of them because I often work blue collar jobs even though I have degree in engineering. the stem job is quite poor. I tend to have better conversation with women are more masculine/tomboyish. they are more logical than feminine women. I can nerd out with the masculine/tomboyish women.

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2025 01:31 PM

I agree...its like some people do not even try to comb there hair before they go to the party.



I sort of noticed the trend that is being spoken of a few years ago and my response was "How can I sweeten the deal for my future wife?"



But allow me to back up a little bit. I wanted a guide book, a users manual. I did not wa

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2025 02:13 PM

(sorry about the interruption) I know that sometimes a person hunts for something and the thought is that they will know what they were looking for when they find it, but I did not feel that approach was correct in the search for a quality wife. Fortunately there is about half of a chapter in the Bible that describes what I should be looking for. Proverbs 31:10-31 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs%2031%3A10-31&version=MSG



One of the things that I thought about was "Since a woman is only half of the people involved in a marriage...what should the other half work on?" Verse 23 says:



-Her husband is known in the gates,

where he sits among the elders of the land.-



In my mind what that means is that I need to not be a slouch

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/slouch



I am sure that those words mean different things to different people. For example some people might interpret that as they need to open and operate an automotive repair shop...but thats not me.



I think that the phrase, -he sits among the elders of the land.- could be talking about something like the chamber of commerce. I have spent a lot of time thinking about how I can become a great leader. That's why I think that different guys have a different interpretation of the phrase 'don't be a slouch'



I want to thank Mr. Handyman for starting the conversation because I enjoyed contributing!



I also hope that all of the boys and girls that read the thread will consider how they fit into Proverbs 31:10-31

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2025 02:24 PM

With all that said, WHY MARRY?

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2025 02:28 PM

A wife of noble character, WHO CAN FIND? (Proverbs 31:10)

If this is the situation between a man and his wife, IT IS BETTER NOT TO MARRY. (Mattthew 19:10)

It is good for a man NOT to touch a woman. (1 Corinthians 7:1)

So why then marry?

Why then be on this site?

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2025 03:40 PM

Some say that behind every great man is a great woman.

Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. (Proverbs 31:23)

I think that means she did not ruin his life but instead was a blessing for her husband. She enhanced his life and enriched his life so that he was respected among the people. His name was not shamed by her. She did not drag him through the mud. He was honored because of her. He was more successful because of his wife. She was a good girl, and good to her husband, and good to her children, and good to everyone. She earned respect. And because of the quality of his wife, her husband gained respect. More women are not of that quality.

More women are of the Proverbs 31:3 quality. Those who ruin kings.

Not many women are of a Proverbs 31:12 quality.

"She brings him good, not harm all the days of her life."

It is not a good time to marry.

WOMEN RULE. (Isaiah 4:1)

The Lord says, “The women of Zion are haughty, walking along with outstretched necks, flirting with their eyes, strutting along with swaying hips, with ornaments jingling on their ankles. (Isaiah 3:16)

It is not a good time to marry.

When the Lord began to speak through Hosea, the Lord said to him, “Go, marry a promiscuous woman and have children with her, for like an adulterous wife this land is guilty of unfaithfulness to the Lord.” (Hosea 1:2)

My earlier draft was denied and vanished into cyber space, so here are my poor efforts to somewhat redraft it.

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2025 03:41 PM

He was able to excel because of his wife.

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Posted : 28 Apr, 2025 06:13 PM

She was good for him.

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