Author	Thread: Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one?
lp59552 View Profile History	Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one? Posted : 18 Oct, 2009 09:24 AM I have made several attempts to communicate with people I find interesting on this site and basically there has been no response. I can not understand why people don't respond...especially because all it is, is a response. No one is asking anyone to get married or even go on a date. If no one responds, how can people meet? I am completely new to this web stuff and one of the reason I find it valuable is the aninotomy(sp?). One person thought I was a scammer...because I am an articulate writer? So does this mean that a person can not have good writing skills??? Help me understand why you are on this site if you are not interested in meeting people. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one? Posted : 18 Oct, 2009 11:29 AM Oh I imagine many different reasons.I am looking for a lady about 150 miles from my home.I can not find one that close. So, I am making friends with many people further away.I found out that in the chat forums we may disagree. But it does get us to talk.Everybody is different and we are at a place where god is still working with us.:laugh: Post Reply
Happy2222 View Profile History	Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one? Posted : 18 Oct, 2009 02:01 PM Not only are you pretty but also intelligent and ( blond? ) I am trying to think of you in a Cheese Hat at the football games. Maybe that is scaring off the guys. Shalom Dan Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one? Posted : 18 Oct, 2009 03:31 PM The first woman to send me a message said "Hi! How are you? Your cute!". And to be polite I answered back saying "Thank you". She was really not my type, but I'm a good guy so I kept talking to her. It eventually led to her frantically wanting to meet up with me, so I quit messaging her because she sounded wayyy to desperate. And then for about two weeks she sent me messages over and over, winked me over and over, and would view my profile several times a day (necessary run on sentence) So honestly, if it's someone that I can't find any way of "clicking" with, I don't send a reply back. It's not to be rude, but a way of avoiding this situation again. Post Reply
lp59552 View Profile History	Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one? Posted : 18 Oct, 2009 04:23 PM I agree that some people can be bothersome, but simply telling that person you no longer wish to communicate should be respected and when it is not, I agree, I would not even bother opening the bothersome communications. Desperate women go to bars to find desperate men. Sincere women who are truly interested in a very slow relationship seek these types of site, for the most part. There are a few bad apples in every bushel. Research shows that relationships that start via a reputable singles site are grounded in friendship and are increasingly successful. What other way is there for people to communicate with others with similar interest without going to a bar or some other place that a decent person should net be? Anyway, thanks for the responses. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one? Posted : 20 Oct, 2009 03:54 PM Either you are dealing with shy people, or if you are like me, your way of thinking scares them. Dunno, but don't give up. :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Why is it so difficult to communicate with people on a perfectly safe site (for the most part), like this one? Posted : 22 Oct, 2009 04:04 PM well if nothing else you can take comfort in knowing that most if not all people you don't meet aren't worth meeting anyway. Post Reply