Author	Thread: Men approching older women
Admin	Men approching older women Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 12:54 PM I'd like to know how men feel about approching older women, since they do, atleast on this site. Now shouldn't we stick to an age goup? for example I just making this up, but let's say ages: 18-21, 22-26, 27-30, 31-33, 34-37, 38-41, 42-45, 46-48, 49-52 and so forth, I think you get the picture. Do men really believe age is just a number, and if so why have an age preference? Post Reply
View Profile History	Men approching older women Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 01:50 PM I think age does matter but I try to stick to a 8 year window but rather no more than 5 up or down. Great question Post Reply
View Profile History	Men approching older women Posted : 15 Oct, 2009 02:22 PM dear sevenna, i dont recall seein anywhere in the bible that says we must stick to our own age groups.. if the LORD is behind it and in it then any age is cool long as they are of legal age.. as for me ive always gone for older women.. since after my first wife,she was younger.. as a teen myself..after that all were older.. but if i believed GOD was involded in the choice then yes i would go younger.. thats what i seek is if GODS involved in it no matter the age.. ole cattle Post Reply
Prov31_Lady View Profile History	Men approching older women Posted : 16 Oct, 2009 05:25 AM I think it's all a matter of preference. It seems that as a person gets older, their preferred age range gets wider. It also has to do with a person's background. You see, I'm 27 and I've never been married, never been with a guy, if you know what I mean. Because of this, I'm not interested in dating a guy who is too far in age or who has been married before. I've actually had many guys in their 50s contact me on a different site - what!? My dad is in his 50s - seriously? That freaks me out a bit. What exactly are those guys lookin' for anyway? My rule of thumb is to use an age range that would include people who would have been in high school with me plus a few more years on the upper end. I'm very well educated and pretty mature for my age so it's unlikely that a guy who is in his early 20s will match up with me very well, but I would have a better chance with older guys. My "real" preference would be someone 26-29, but of course, I've opened that up to include a more possibilities. So if you want to keep a somewhat narrow age range, I say good! If you want to keep a larger age range, I also say good! You have to know what you're looking for and you have to know when to say "yes" and when to say "no." Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Men approching older women Posted : 16 Oct, 2009 04:15 PM Prov31, well said! I share those same feelings. I think I have my age range on here set at 24 - 32. My reasoning is that a 24 year-old could be finished with college, have a steady job, and be ready to settle down and start a family. A 32 year-old is only 6 years older than me...at least he wouldn't be old enough to be my father! Ideally, I'd like to find someone within about a year of me (25 - 27), but maturity is more important than exact age. Post Reply
View Profile History	Men approching older women Posted : 20 Oct, 2009 08:36 PM Personally, I prefer them older as a girl who is very young lacks experience in life, and is often time more gullible and still finding her self and therefore less prone to know what she wants, and therefore probably more likely to jump ship at random, especially with the way society is indoctrinated now a days. I swear people treat each other as disposables more and more as time goes on. Mind you this is not always the case, I met some younger people that seemed a lot older, were very dedicated and sincere, and seemed to be born with natural wisdom and intelligence, but none the less, it seems safer to go with the older ones. Though of course there are a lot of older women out there who seem pre-occupied with trying to reclaim their "wonder years" and emulate the behaviors and dress styles of a secular 16 year old, but I'd think the chances of running into them would be far and few between, at least I'd hope, for a Christian woman would be one who has come to terms with the fact that we all grow older and eventually separate from this mortal coil, yet while this process is occurring we are supposed to be growing, wiser, stronger, younger, stronger, and closer to God internally, making the flesh pretty much null and void except for the sake of physical health, and of course attraction for the sake of reproduction and smiles. So yes, I find it a lot more enjoyable to share the company of an older woman over all, but there are those occasional exceptions. Post Reply