Author	Thread: Do guys really like the girls that bare it all?
Admin	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 10 Oct, 2009 10:35 PM Recently I was curious to see what the other girls on this site had for profiles and pictures to see what attracted men. I'm appauled at how many women show too much in their photos, I saw one woman's profile that had nothing more than a sentence in her about me section but had a picture of her with a white shirt and her bra hanging out and she had been favorited almost 100 times! If we're all christian here then I'm not understanding why this is going on. Are guys really interested in girls that show everything? In my opinion, it is MORE attractive when a woman shows that she can dress herself well and conservative and look good while doing it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 10 Oct, 2009 11:50 PM well, i'm just as red blooded as the next guy, but it doesn't really do much for impressing, gaining my respect. Conservative doesn't mean you can't wear fun bright colors though does it? For me it conveys happiniess, which in my opinion is a great if not the greatest aphrodesiac (sp?). Post Reply
View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 12:34 PM I agree with you singergirl to an extent. And I am not a guy, But I can also view it as, not everyone on this site is a Christian. Some are searching, some don't know what they want, and some aren't here for the right reasons at all. And, boys...they will be boys :) But I still agree in the fact, how something so..vulgar, can be so much more attractive than a beautiful person with a beautiful heart to go with it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 12:52 PM Remp, no bright colors are always welcome! I don't mean hard-core conservative, because that just wouldn't pass in today's world. But keeping the chest covered for example. I do realize guys are very visual, but wouldn't covering up be even better then? I guess if that girl that is wearing the blouse with her bra showing, then she's attracting the guys that she wants to...which in essence wouldn't be the ones that interest me anyway. Hmmm.. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 02:04 PM Yeah i think alot of times the point of girls wearing chesty shirts or having their undergarnments showing is to get attention and feel attractive without having to have a personality. after a while guys realize this and place them in the 'bimbo' or 'future beer belly chick' catagory. having a magnetic personality is by far the most important. usually clothes match this. however, on the otherside of the coin. have you ever seen the movie saving silverman? that girl was wearing a nun uniform but even so she was so overwhelmingly attractive cuz of her personality. actually there's alot of good reasons to watch saving silverman. great funny movie. :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 04:10 PM The important thing to remember is 2 words; they are what and who. Who you are is you.It defines your personality.What you are is your sex,male or female. Some people advertise their sex. Some advertise who they are. You get what are looking for. In my profile I advertise who I am.A picture says a 1,000 words.It really is a kodak moment.:waving: Words to think on for you youngsters. Post Reply
View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 05:46 PM I don't like it. Can't read anyone's mind, but what that says to me is "come and get some sex". That is probably what most guys think and my best guess is that is the message those women are trying to send, either intentionally or subconsciously. Its not too smart unless they want to get a lot of emails from sex and porn addicts. They are going to reap what they are sowing. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 06:11 PM It kinda irritates me a little...I was just reading a magazine where a guy had written a letter and was saying that he was becoming very distracted at work with all the women/cleavage. The columnist's response was, "Don't look. Just say to yourself: "Wow, that must be empowering compared to 40 years ago", and get back to work." Which begs the question...why do women like to show cleavage if they don't like people looking? Does it get hot in there? I just think its a little prideful. Maybe I should start selling "Ab-shirts", or "Pec-shirts" to guys and see if women find it distracting. It's not just guys. There are just some things the opposite sexes find alluring/attractive...and while we can't hide them all the time, we could at least try and be a little modest about it...and no...I'm not saying we should be Amish...just...more considerate. At least us Christians should. How many want to admit that pride is a motivating factor in "displaying your sex"? "Hey, look at me, I'm more man/woman then them...look at how nice my cleavage/muscles are...". Is there any other reason besides pride? :peace::peace: Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 11 Oct, 2009 06:13 PM It kinda irritates me a little...I was just reading a magazine where a guy had written a letter and was saying that he was becoming very distracted at work with all the women/cleavage. The columnist's response was, "Don't look. Just say to yourself: "Wow, that must be empowering compared to 40 years ago", and get back to work." Which begs the question...why do women like to show cleavage if they don't like people looking? Does it get hot in there? I just think its a little prideful. Maybe I should start selling "Ab-shirts", or "Pec-shirts" to guys and see if women find it distracting. It's not just guys. There are just some things the opposite sexes find alluring/attractive...and while we can't hide them all the time, we could at least try and be a little modest about it...and no...I'm not saying we should be Amish...just...more considerate. At least us Christians should. How many want to admit that pride is a motivating factor in "displaying your sex"? "Hey, look at me, I'm more man/woman then them...look at how nice my cleavage/muscles are...". Is there any other reason besides pride? :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 12 Oct, 2009 05:33 AM Good question singergirl,and to be !00 percent honest,before I was saved I would have said,The more you show the better,as a single christian man,I find it....Just downright tough to deal with....And I must run run run!!!!!Christian girls should be more discrete,not prudeish,just a tad more conservative than the norm! In Christ Steve Post Reply
Forgiven4ever View Profile History	Do guys really like the girls that bare it all? Posted : 13 Oct, 2009 01:39 PM Hello Singergirl. Stick to your convictions! It can sometimes bother me also how women dress. Not only for our poor brothers, but if you call yourself a Christian why? Well I have learned that we all have, are, or could be the women at the well in one fashion or another. And I would say we were all there at one time before coming to Christ. Who wasn't looking for love thinking that would fulfill our dreams, hurts and wants? I have also learned there are many hurting people in this world, and Jesus so wishes us to be healed from that, and accept His unconditional love. A women dresses like that yes sometimes because she does not no any better, and has been raised in a negative fashion and taught to use abuse her sexuality. There are some hurt and confused sisters out there, as well as brothers thinking that is what they should go after because of porn, sexual abuse, addiction you name it. Many sisters have been victim to this also, and know nothing else. Although I have to say there are wolves in sheep's clothing! On my page I have a prayer for us all. I will continue to pray that prayer! Mean while what I like about this site is that we can send messages to other women. Let's encourage other women and pray for our younger sisters in the Lord (not age maturity in the Lord). The bible instructs us to do so. Pray and see how the Lord would use you on this site to minister to others. Not only sisters but brothers also. Pray for them! After all it may not be that you are on this site to meet your future husband but to touch anther's heart and life in their growth in the Lord. Pray for our brothers! What an honor! Be blessed and be a blessing. In His love, Cindy p.s. For your brothers that have made a convent like Job to keep your eyes pure-- good going! Teach your younger brothers to bounce there eyes off that which does not belong to him, and to make a covenant also! Post Reply

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