Author	Thread: viewing your profile
Admin	viewing your profile Posted : 15 Aug, 2009 06:58 PM Ok guys...maybe this is a dumb question...but..if a guy views your profile more than once....does he expect you to start talking to him? Is he shy or does he just want to keep looking @ your pics? LOL, I know this is stupid, but just a randon question? Post Reply
View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 12:22 AM Good question!Well usally if I do it,its because I saw something i Like,and maybe something I didnt.For instance,she might have a pretty smile,But wants to travel the world and go yachting in the south seas,sometimes i might forget why I ruled that person out in the first place,but then when i see the yachting thing ill be like,oh yeah,thats right,lol!Thats why i leave my veiwing off so no one thinks im a stalker!When really,I just have short term memory loss,LOL In Christ Steven:dancingp: Post Reply
View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 01:04 AM Hi I do it because I see her thumbnail pic again and I remember there was something I liked about her. So I want to remind myself what it was. Eventually, I may feel the timing is right and reach out to her. Or I will get the sense over time that maybe our personalities won't click, or her denomination is just too far afield from mine, etc. But if she did view mine back a couple times too, then THAT would certainly get me thinking more about her in the right direction. She doesn't have to initiate any messages, just viewing me multiple times will generally motivate me if I see any promise at all. Post Reply
View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 02:57 AM MY SISTER SARAH, THIS IS CERTAINLY NOT A STUPID OR DUMB QUESTION. I AM HAPPY YOU BROUGHT THIS UP. I AGREE WITH SOME OF THE POINTS THAT WERE MADE BEFORE ME AND I HAVE SOME IDEAS BELOW. I THINK THAT THERE ARE SO MANY REASONS AS TO WHY A GUY MAY DO THIS AND HERE ARE A FEW BELOW, SOME OF WHICH ARE ALREADY MENTIONED. 1-HE IS SHY 2-HE HAS SENT A GAZILLION MESSAGES TO OTHER WOMEN THAT WERE NOT SUCCESSFUL, AND SO HE HAS ADOPTED A NEW METHOD 3-HE LIKED A PARTICULAR PICTURE (NOTHING SEXUAL,LOL) 4-HE LIKED THE WAY IN WHICH A PARTICULAR BIBLE VERSE WAS INTEGRATED INTO A PARTICULAR PROFILE 5-HE LIKED THE WAY IN WHICH THE LORD GOD WAS ACKNOWLEDGED IN THE PROFILE 6-HE IS STILL THINKING OF HOW TO DROP A LINE 7-HE IS WONDERING WHETHER THEIR IS THE SLIGHTEST OF OPPORTUNITYS TO GET TO KNOW HER, KNOWING THAT SHE HAS ALREADY BEEN ADDED TO A GAZILLION FAV LISTS 8-HE WANTS HER TO DROP HIM A LINE 9-HE LIKED HER TESTIMONY 10-HE IS DOUBLE CHECKING TO CONFIRM THAT HE WAS NOT DREAMING WHEN HE SAW THIS UNBELIEVABLY COMPATIBLE PROFILE, LOL 11-HE IS WAITING FOR HER TO COME ONLINE 12-SHE SAID SOMETHING THAT TRIPLED THE SPEED OF HIS HEART BEAT 13-REJECTION HAS BECOME A HOBBY FOR HIM,LOL 14-ABRAHAM IS NOT HIS FIRST NAME,LOL WELL THESE ARE JUST A FEW REASONS AS TO WHY A GUY WILL VIEW A WOMANS PROFILE MORE THAN ONCE. SOME OF WHICH ARE JUST HUMOUROUS. THERE ARE SO MANY OTHERS. I HOPE YOU CRACKLED OVER SOME OF THEM, LOL:glow: Post Reply
pattarom2009 View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 06:29 AM I know I'm guilty of viewing a profile more than once. I hit the back button and it came back to a profile, or I click on somebody's profile again when I sift through "my matches". I tend to remember what's written in the profile more than the face, and if the profile says too little or things like "I hate filling these things out" I'll pass. Also, there may be some criteria that's not met. For example, I won't initiate conversation with somebody that's still married. I think it's easy for a guy to make the first approach through the internet, so I wouldn't worry about him waiting on you to make the first move. You certainly can, though. If somebody you're interested in checks you out a few times you can do like I do. I send a letter saying thank you for taking the time to read my profile. If you don't hear back well, now you know! ;) Post Reply
View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 06:31 PM Well bros, those were some sincerely insightful thoughts. I really appreciate you all taking the time to answer :-) Thanks so much! & thanks for being so positive about your answers, y'all a great - hope you have a blessed one! Post Reply
View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 18 Aug, 2009 07:21 PM OH yeah...& KRISTIAN KIDD - Crackled isn't the word...LOL!! thanks for the detailed response! your sis, Sarah Post Reply
DAVWEY83 View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 20 Aug, 2009 01:56 PM I just am really bad at remember names and faces. In real life I remember best by height and voice, heh. Strange but true. Post Reply
TaxMan View Profile History	viewing your profile Posted : 21 Sep, 2009 05:09 AM Some times I forget that I've looked at someone so I click 'em again. I'll also do it if replying to someone's messages. It's amazing the number of young ladies from the Philippines with degrees who look the same from a thumbnail. And then look the same from a profile. Hmm...Someth'n goin on there. Post Reply