Author	Thread: 3 options for FIRsT move
bella401 View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 14 Aug, 2009 07:06 PM hi guys wanna ask you some advice.. ok here.. which one do you prefer for first move? private message, a wink or instant message? huge thanks for you..... Post Reply
View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 14 Aug, 2009 07:37 PM dear bella, welcome to the forums.. id prefer a email.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 14 Aug, 2009 11:03 PM BELLA, PERSONALLY, I WOULD NOT MIND ANY OF THEM, BUT I HAVE LEARNT THAT THE INSTANT MESSENGER HAS SOME PROBLEMS.:glow: Post Reply
spri1458 View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 15 Aug, 2009 07:28 AM I definitely prefer email. Winks can be hard to respond to, and I never see the instant messages people send for some reason. Post Reply
View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 15 Aug, 2009 06:16 PM email AND wink Post Reply
View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 16 Aug, 2009 01:16 AM just a short message saying "hi". that's all you gotta do to get our attention thoroughly... Post Reply
pattarom2009 View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 17 Aug, 2009 07:28 AM I prefer the wink ;) It's as innocent as a smile in public. I don't feel like I'm shooting somebody down if I don't return it. Yes, I would smile back in public :nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 10 Sep, 2009 08:47 PM hey there, I personally will respond to any of the 3, if you send me a wink, then i will wink back ;) Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 12 Sep, 2009 09:31 AM Either an email or a wink. I never see the instant messages. (It has gotten to the point where if someone wants to chat, that person has to IM me letting me know, then the missed message goes into my inbox, and I have to send that person an IM so that we can chat...it's terribly confusing!) But back to the point: a wink is easier to ignore if I don't think that person would be a good match. I wink at lots of people, and most never respond. It doesn't hurt my feelings. An email, on the other hand, means that someone actually took time to write a message, no matter how short, and I feel that I have to send a message back. If I sent the first message, I know that I would like at least something sent back! A note on e-mails -- if someone is going to send me one, it had better have decent grammar, spelling, and punctuation. I won't respond to something that looks like a 5 year old kid wrote it. Shallow, maybe, but that's the way I am. Post Reply
TaxMan View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 21 Sep, 2009 05:25 AM Being a guy, I'm flattered by any of the above options. I think women can be a little more selective. Heck, I am still trying to not get excited when I see that someone VIEWED my profile! I always send a private message, though. Post Reply
LIABATUD View Profile History	3 options for FIRsT move Posted : 1 Jan, 2010 08:40 AM Winks are good because they are innocent - no strings attached. Post Reply