Author	Thread: sigh....:(
Admin	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 06:18 PM Remind me again why I'm 21 and still a virgin. Post Reply
tristan07 View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 06:19 PM get married. Post Reply
View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 06:28 PM Jared, Could you be more specific. Post Reply
View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 06:46 PM I don't know, Its just getting old I guess.I'm getting tired of people giving me a hard time about it. Post Reply
View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 07:00 PM and Tristan if I could do that we wouldn't be having this conversation now would we! Post Reply
View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 07:04 PM dear jared, welcome to the forums.. its cause youre doin the right thing ..not only for you but for the woman youre gonna marry as well.. good LORD willin.. also youre doin it for GOD too .. showin your love for HIM.. keep up the good work.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 07:54 PM Jared, It sounds to me like the Evil one is hard at work in the people around you trying to break down your defenses. And from his point of view, it is well worth the effort. After all, he is well aware that if he can cause you to stumble in this particular area of your life, he has not only effected you, but he has also effected your future wife and children along with the future husband and children of whomever you stumble with. Those are a lot of lives. Also, What these persons are actually doing is showing a complete lack of regard for whomever you will marry right now. Jared, realize for a moment that God knows exactly where and whom your future wife is right now. Now imagine that she may also have people giving her a difficult time about her virginity. Take a moment and consider what you would say to encourage her. Maybe even say a prayer for her tonight, asking the Lord to keep her in the same way that you need to be kept, wherever she is. My son was eleven when he began to pray for the girl that he would one day marry. Post Reply
tristan07 View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 08:03 PM First off bud, you should be proud of it, not complaining. This is really not an appropriate topic. Virginity and sexuality is something you should discuss with othe guys, in a location where its not going to offend someone. Older men on here who you can discuss this with in private. I lost mine, wrongly, when I was about 16. I would kill to get that back and have done it right. Your plee offends me. No one on here is going to feel sorry for you. You need to get the right perspective. Imeediately, if you keep looking/wanting that sexual connection, it will burn you in the behind. Take your time, find the right person, BE the right person, and in time, the right things will happen. at any point in time you can become like the rest of the world and become a low life. stick to the high road, glrorify God, and if you need to talk, find Godly men on here who can lead you in the right direction. NEVER be in a hurry to make a mistake. period. and talk to tne RIGHT people about it, at the right time, in the right place. make sense, not mistakes. Post Reply
myhopejeremiah29_11 View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 08:37 PM From a female's perspective (I know this is ask a guy....sorry) but it is something very admirable. You should not care what others think about it. Do you stop believing in God because others give you grief about that? Post Reply
View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 12 Aug, 2009 10:53 PM Hey Jared Another way to look at it is what do you want in your mate? Do you want her to also be a virgin? I believe you would. So as you trek on doing all you can to find her, be sure to pray a lot for her struggle too (as she is most likely praying for yours right now). Stay pure and righteous, pray for her a lot, and trust in your loving Father Who wants to bless you beyond your imaginings. Faith in God honors the Lord, and He does appreciate it- and He loves to gift His children. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	sigh....:( Posted : 13 Aug, 2009 10:10 AM When you have sex with someone...you become part of them...spiritually and physically. You become one flesh. Gods says "What God has joined, let no man tear apart". I don't think you're "married" until you became one flesh. Seems like quite a few people today have been "one flesh" an awful lot...and have then become "torn apart" by becoming "one flesh" with another person. It isn't a marriage license that makes you married in God's eyes. It isn't a ring. It's a commitment. And I think that commitment starts with "becoming one flesh"....so I'm going to wait. :peace::peace: Post Reply

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