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men always looking for the beauty of the women
Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 07:21 AM

Men always will looking for the pretty and nice body sharp of women to choose their life partner here.Whether in this world still have a men is not looking on the outside thing and really love you with their true heart no matter how is the girl look like and is the body sharp they are......



How is your guy opinion on this topic...welcome all to share anything on this network,so that we can growing each and other and let women know what are your men thinking and understand guy heart here.....



God Bless you all....

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men always looking for the beauty of the women
Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 11:07 AM

HI

SISTER ALICE, FIRST OF ALL, PLEASE BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDING AND YOUR VIEWS IN RELATION TO MEN.



IF YOU HAD MET EVERY MAN ON THE FACE OF THIS EARTH, THEN MAYBE , YOU WOULD BE IN A BETTER POSITION TO SAY THAT, �Men always will looking for the pretty and nice body sharp of women�.



LIKE I HAVE SAID TO MANY WOMEN BEFORE, NOT ALL MEN ARE THE SAME, IF YOU HAPPEN TO MEET A GUY WHO BEHAVES IN THE WAY YOU DESCRIBED, IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT EVERY OTHER GUY THINKS IN THE SAME MANNER.



IN ADDITION, I HAVE COME ACROSS SOME WOMEN WHO DESIRE A HANDSOME AND �nice body sharp of man�, JUST AS SOME MEN DO, SO IT HAPPENS BOTH WAYS.



SISTER ALICE, EVERYBODY HAS THEIR OWN PREFERENCE, EVEN YOU MUST HAVE YOUR OWN PREFERENCE. IT IS NOT A SIN TO HAVE A PREFERENCE, JUST TRY NOT TO LET OTHERS PREFERENCES GET TO YOU. YOU NEVER KNOW, YOUR OWN PREFERENCE MIGHT BE OFFENDING OTHERS AS WE SPEAK, JUST AS OTHER PEOPLES PREFERENCES, LOOK TO HAVE OFFENDED YOU.



JUST LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE, I ALSO HAVE A PERSONAL PREFERENCE, BUT I AM MORE INTERESTED IN THE INTERNAL BEING OF A WOMAN, AS OPPOSED TO HER OUTWARD LOOK, ALTHOUGH I DO PAY MODERATE ATTENTION TO HER OUTWARD, WHO DOESNT? HOWEVER, HER INWARD IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO ME. TAKE MY WAY WORD, THERE ARE MORE LIKE ME, JUST WAIT ON THE LORD.



IN CONCLUSION, YOU NEED TO LOSE THE �MEN ARE ALL THE SAME MENTALITY� BECAUSE YOU MAY COME ACROSS THE RIGHT MAN FOR YOU ONE DAY AND IF YOU CONTINUE WITH THIS MENTALITY, YOU MIGHT JUST PUSH THE ONE THAT IS RIGHT FOR YOU, AWAY.



GIVE PEOPLE A CHANCE, FORGET WHAT YOU HAVE HEARD OR EXPERIANCED AND MOST IMPORTANTLY KEEP ON KEEPING ON IN JESUS.

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Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 02:47 PM

IN ADDITION, QUOTED IN THE PARAGRAPH THAT FOLLOWS THE ONE YOU ARE READING CURRENTLY, ARE SOME OF THE COMMENTS FROM THE PROFILE OF A FEMALE ON THIS WEBSITE (CDFF), WHOS USERNAME IS NEONSILVERFROGGY.



�I LIKE GUYS WITH LONG HAIR, SO DON�T BOTHER CONTACTING ME IF YOU DON�T HAVE IT, I RARELY READ MY MESSAGES, BUT IF I THINK YOU�RE ALRIGHT, I�LL TAKE A GLIMPSE�



SOME PEOPLE MAY LOOK AT THE PREFERENCE OF THIS FEMALE AND BECOME OFFENDED, BUT THE FACT IS THAT SHE HAS NOT DONE ANYTHING WRONG, THIS IS WHAT SHE LIKES AND WHAT SHE IS AFTER AND SUCH SHOULD BE RESPECTED.



I PERSONALLY HAVE NOTHING WRONG WITH HER PROFILE AND CAN ONLY HOPE AND PRAY THAT SHE FINDS WHAT SHE IS SEEKING.



SO PLEASE RETHINK YOUR COMMENTS ,SISTER ALICE.

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men always looking for the beauty of the women
Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 03:05 PM

dear folks, it is not a sin to look for what is beautiful to you..

ole cattle

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Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 03:38 PM

For me, beauty is a combination of the inner AND outer aspects of a woman. I have seen many (and known some) outwardly beautiful women who's inner qualities made them very unattractive to me. The reverse is also true. I have known women who were not outwardly very attractive but possesed inner qualities that made them very beautiful!



I think that in general, men are more "visually" wired than women, but don't jump to the conclusion that this is always a bad thing! The different inner qualities that men and women have reveal somethig of God's character. We're both, male and female, created in His image!



"The story of Eve holds such rich treasures for us to discover. The essence and purpose of a woman are unveiled here in the story of her creation. These profound, eternal, mythic themes are written not just here in the coming of Eve, but in the soul of every woman after. Woman is the crown of creation�the most intricate, dazzling creature on earth. She has a crucial role to play, a destiny of her own.



"And she, too, bears the image of God. But in a way that only the feminine can speak. What can we learn from her? God wanted to reveal something about himself, so he gave us Eve. When you are with a woman, ask yourself, What is she telling me about God? It will open up wonders for you.



"First, you�ll discover that God is relational to his core, that he has a heart for romance. Second, that he longs to share adventures with us�adventures we cannot accomplish without him. And finally, that God has a beauty to unveil. A beauty that is captivating and powerfully redemptive."

(John and Stasi Eldredge - "Captivating")

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Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 03:48 PM

The way a man gets attracted to a woman initially might be because the woman is beautiful. And in a dating site where you actually don't interact with a person, but rather want to start a conversation after liking a person, then looks play an important role, but it does not mean that men are going to go for the most beautiful women. Its only that they should like the appearance, at least thats in my case, but often I have found that when I come to know more about a person and I love their character I do get attracted to them because of their character though I did not find them physically attractive initially. But that can happen only in real life rather than in a dating site. So when you are on a website, I'm sure, its not just the men, but even women put more importance to the looks, but at the same time, some people who are beautiful feel repelling because you don't like their character, so beauty is not everything and believe me in real life things are much more different than when you interact with people on a website.

I don't know if this speaks for all men, but this is at least what is my perspective..

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men always looking for the beauty of the women
Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 04:23 PM

dear journey, welcome to the forums.

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men always looking for the beauty of the women
Posted : 9 Aug, 2009 04:23 PM

dear alice, i forgot sorry, welcome to the forums..

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2009 02:13 AM

i not judge for all men is like that, maybe some of the men is difference.As a brother and sister in christ, i just need to get some view point from yours,so that let women more understand what is the men thinking in their inner heart.But currently the earth men is given me a lot of feedback like that,when you are no more beauty at outside look and have good body sharp,they will straight away reject you and don't want be a friend with you.I have some guy friend,even can spent a lot money for his girl friend and maintain the relationship with the girl because of her outward is beautiful,even they don't border how bad the inner qualities or attitude for this girl friend,they also can continue with blindly...when the money is finish spend,the girl is leaving him and that time the guy will feel regret and wake up...

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2009 02:51 AM

i have facing the problem on internet friend network, they are only looking for women beauty and request sex from me.some of the men is very funny ,he can naked to you and said that " this is call a true love" and only for me to see and he is also a christian people there.Some of the men when looking for beautiful women photo,they can imagine so much of thing like sex and do it theirself on webcam.This is no any prejudice to any men here, but i just need to share any true feeling from my heart only.



I just do a funny advice for that men, this kind of acting is not call "love", is call sin there and i said to him ,god give us so beauty of body there,we must respect on what god given to us and take care of god image here.I care for this brother but he said i hurt him...haha...sometime i also very confuse and can not trust on men because i also don't know whether he is really love me from their heart or cheating me for other motive.Some of the men will direct request for sex 1st and build up the relationship on later...In this situation, what are yours opinion here....

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men always looking for the beauty of the women
Posted : 10 Aug, 2009 03:08 AM

In other statement, i have a girl friend,she stay together with her boy friend around 10 year,but the men also don't want to married with her and sometimes he will avoid the discussion on marriage topic.My friends consider is very good caring,loyal and lovely person,but her outward no so well and fatty only.How come that guy don't want married with her...how is your opinon there?



My statement is difference,My ex boy friend break up with me because he is getting a more pretty and younger lady,even her father is rich people and given the business to him,so that he no need to work so hard for his future life,even her father given money to him to buy a house after they are married...afterthat he said to me ...he not happy now....but i also need to thanks god,because he putting that girl to break up ours 3 year relationship here and protect me from hurt in future...



i just a normal lady,i hope to find a lovely ,caring men here,i am not materialistic lady..money for me is not so important,even the looks is not so well i also can accept,the important thing is true from his heart...hahaha....



welcome to sharing any yours view point here...don't feel tention here...because we also learn from the false and remind us don't repeat the human false here...is a very interest life story to let us to growing together here...



god bless you all guy....

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