Author	Thread: Too Pretty
Admin	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 03:05 PM Will average-looking, or not so average-looking Joe think a girl is too pretty or naturally alluring to be interested in her, even if she expresses interest in him? or if she takes pride in her appearance then is she materialistic and not bearing the fruit of herself in God's eye? I've read comments when looking at women and seeing what she values ...suggests its based on profile pixs. Post Reply
View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 04:48 PM In person, the "too pretty" idea might prevent a man from taking initiative; but it rarely inhibits him from reciprocating in person. Online is a different animal. Most men will start with the women they find most attractive and work their way down. Attractive is a combination of both looks and the slightly perceivable personality and values. So, online, I'd say there is no such inhibition. Post Reply
tristan07 View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 04:53 PM There's the question of the ages. I be honest (for once haha) Let's look at my history. Especially in high school, I was freindly to any and all, nice. But I only dated gal's I was attracted to. And I wasn't looking for a perfect 10, blah. Just someone who physically attracted me. That's the human race for you. I never dated *pretty gals* who had terrible personalities. had to be a whole package. It's not about being superficial, just real. And sometimes reality bites. Sometimes I'll see gals on here who look like supermodels, I rarely even give it a shot, not because I don't think I'm up for it, just, I've always been the pretty girl next door guy, not the supermodel type. It's all in the eye. Rest assured, God knows what he's doing, even when we don't, you will find your man. Alex Post Reply
View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 04:57 PM dear golden, nope , doesnt intimidate me.. i look at it as same as any woman id be interisted in.. worst they can do is say no thank you.. and the reward far outweighs any risk.. and that goes the same with any woman one would wanna see about. ole cattle Post Reply
Shunammite View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 05:00 PM Alex, so why did you change your profile pic back to the melancholy? Are you still brooding? Man, dont. As many people have told you already, there is better in store for you. On prettiness - well, sorry 'am not a guy, no clue. But I am curious, what dress size (female) attracts men. Is it really the double zeroes??? And what is considered overweight? Post Reply
View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 05:08 PM good rule of thumb is BMI. Since most women are not body builders, the more dense of muscle tissue compared to fat won't throw off the calculation as significantly as it can for fit men. A BMI of 18 is super healthy, 16 is a good sign of anorexia, 23 is the tail end of healthy, and anything over than is considered overweight. I believe medical obesity sits at 40lbs over the 23 BMI mark, but I could be wrong. As for hip size, I think most men would tell you size 0 is too small. Though being a short guy, I'm more concerned with proportions than the actual hip width. Post Reply
Shunammite View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 06:34 PM Oh Bush! Are these the US measurements? I think not. My understanding is that 40 is morbidly obese. ...and you'r right on the bulkiness of muscles so at some doctor's office, you are asked if you are an athlete so they can adjust the machines correctly. I think for athletes, its +2 for each of the above. But anyways, what do men like? this is more for thought provocation. I think at the end of the day, it is important to keep our focus on the right place - upwards than 'lookwards'. Post Reply
Shunammite View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 06:37 PM Oh Bush! Are these the US measurements? I think not. My understanding is that 40 is morbidly obese. ...and you'r right on the bulkiness of muscles. So at some doctor's office, you are asked if you are an athlete and they adjust the machines appropriately. I think for athletes, it's ~+2 for each of the above. But anyways, what do men like? this is more for thought provocation. I think at the end of the day, it is important to keep our focus on the right place - upwards than 'look-wards'. Post Reply
View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 08:04 PM Shunammite, I had a good Christian friend of mine and his wife read a number of women's profiles to my son and I without looking at the women's photographs. While they read, my son and I kept track of the profiles we thought "sounded" most attractive based upon Christ like qualities, thoughtfulness and generally sounding healthy. The results were an eye opener as to what is truly important. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 5 Aug, 2009 08:32 PM Yes, there are definitely girls that I find too pretty. I mean...I obviously like pretty girls....just like every guy that's honest. But some girls are just like..."whoa"...and I don't think I could handle "whoa". It just seems like a girl like that would always be getting hit on by guys, might even have that temptation to run off with brad pitt...it just seems like uber-pretty girls are kinda dangerous when it comes to relationships...maybe it's a self-esteem problem also. Who knows. I don't think taking "pride" in your appearance is bad though. Depends on what you mean by pride. Are we talking vanity or just...that they like to be "presentable"? :peace::peace: Post Reply
tristan07 View Profile History	Too Pretty Posted : 7 Aug, 2009 12:56 PM Hah, no I'm not brooding. I'm quite peacefull, I just don't have a peaceful alex pic lol. but thanks for asking. 8) Post Reply

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