Author	Thread: Why guys answer simple questions?
greatful View Profile History	Why guys answer simple questions? Posted : 3 Aug, 2009 07:25 PM I don't understand why guy(s) says, "I want to meet you" but he doesn't answer simple questions - to to know questions. Are most guys so hurtful or shy can't answer? Please help me out. Thanks Post Reply
View Profile History	Why guys answer simple questions? Posted : 3 Aug, 2009 08:08 PM dear great, welcome to the forums.. maybe simple to you may be complex to them.. i aint sure.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	Why guys answer simple questions? Posted : 3 Aug, 2009 11:31 PM HI GREATFUL. I BELIEVE THE FIRST THING WE NEED TO WORK ON IS THE WAY YOU PUT ALL GUYS UNDER ONE ROOF, ALL BECAUSE OF THE COURSE OF ACTION WHICH ANOTHER GUY TOOK. YOU HAVE NOT MET EVERY MALE IN THE WORLD SO HOW CAN WE ALL BE THE SAME? AS I HAVE SAID A MILLION TIMES ON CDFF AND TO WOMEN ELSEWHERE, NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME. BESIDES, THERE ARE SOME LADIES OUT THERE WHO FAIL TO ANSWER SIMPLE QUESTIONS AS WELL, THERE ARE ALSO, SOME LADIES WHO ARE SHY AND VERY HURTFUL. NOW, IF YOU LOOK AT MY LAST PARAGRAPH, I USED THE WORD �SOME�, INSTEAD OF BRANDING ALL LADIES THE SAME. PLEASE BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDING. FOR EXAMPLE, THIS IS BASED ON THE EXPERIANCE OF ANOTHER MAN ON THIS WEBSITE, HE APPROACHED A LADY WITH A POLITE E-MAIL, SIGNALLING INTEREST, SHE FAILED TO RESPOND AFTER A CONSIDERABLE AMOUNT OF TIME, HE KEPT SENDING MORE AND AFTER ABOUT THE FOURTH E-MAIL, SHE SUDDENLY DISCOVERED THAT THEY WERE COMPATABLE, NOW THATS HURTFUL AND VERY INSULTING, WHAT DOES THAT DO FOR THE SELF ESTEEM/RESPECT OF THE BROTHER. HE WAS NOT DESIGNED AS A DOG, SO WHY THE LADY IS PLAYING CATCH, I DONT KNOW. IT IS SHOCKING THE WAY SOME PEOPLE BEHAVE. WE NEED TO LET GO OF BAD EXPERIANCES WE MAY HAVE HAD WITH MEN AND WOMEN, WE ALSO NEED TO BE EXTRA CAREFUL WITH THE MANNER IN WHICH WE WORD OUR GRIEVIANCES. I DID HOWEVER NOTICE THAT AT ONE POINT YOU USED THE WORD "MOST", WHICH AINT SO GREAT EITHER, BUT IS BETTER THAN SAYING ALL GUYS. I HOPE I DID NOT SOUND OFFENSIVE, BUT WHEN YOU KEEP HEARING, SOME WOMEN TELLING YOU THAT YOUR CHARACTER AND PERSONALITY IS THE SAME AS THE OTHER, WHEN IT CLEARLY IS NOT, IT BECOMES DRAINING. REGARDING THIS PARTICULAR GUY, YOU WERE NOT CREATED AS A DOG, DONT ALLOW HIM TO PLAY CATCH WITH YOU AND OR, COMMONLY KNOWN AS �HARD TO GET�. IM NOT PERFECT AND NEVER WILL BE, NEITHER AM I JUDGING ANYONE BUT ITS AMAZING THAT EVEN SOME CHRISTIANS PLAY THIS SO CALLED �HARD TO GET�, FORGETING THAT, �old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.� (2 CORINTHIANS 5:17) THE WAY I SEE IT IS THAT, AFTER YOU HAVE SENT A MAXIMUM OF TWO MESSAGES AND HE HAS NOT RESPONDED, PRAY FOR DIRECTION, BUT IN THE MEEN TIME, DONT SEND ANY FURTHER MESSAGES. IF THE GUY HAS BEEN READING YOUR MESSAGES BUT IS NOT RESPONDING AFTER A CONSIDERABLE AMOUNT OF TIME THEN CLEARLY HE DOES NOT RESPECT WHAT HE IS READING AND WHO IT IS COMING FROM. ANYWHO, SORRY TO CONVEY AN ESSAY FOR YOU, HOW ARE YOU, HOW IS YOUR DAY GOING THUS FAR, AND HAVE A LOVELY REMAINDER OF THE DAY FRIEND.:waving: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why guys answer simple questions? Posted : 4 Aug, 2009 12:34 AM They're probably just shy, and insecure about how to phrase their responses, so they shrink away. Or their attention got drawn in another direction. In these days of 'Court and Spark', you will experience many times when things don't happen. Just know that and do not take initial things over the internet personally (try to have a thicker skin to keep your self-esteem healthy for when you'll want to employ it). Play the odds, and know that it will take many an effort to find your gem, or a lot of waiting until the right one comes along and makes it happen. Like I've heard it said, if it ain't happening smooth and easy in the beginning, can you imagine how it will be after marriage... Post Reply
View Profile History	Why guys answer simple questions? Posted : 4 Aug, 2009 07:40 AM Could you give us an idea of a few of the questions? Maybe we can explain why we wouldn't want to answer those questions. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why guys answer simple questions? Posted : 4 Aug, 2009 11:00 AM i was watching a show on internet dating and the one point which i found interesting was those men who would champion in the dating field because of their athletic ability, attractive features, charismatic personality and strong presence are now being outdone by the geeks/nerds through the internet dating circuit. These geeks/nerds are more adept and can exhibit heightened prowlness, whereas the typical jock-class president is stumbling in the cyber dating world. Also, i know a few men who do not type well, if at all, and imagine that frustration with trying to communicate...hence why we may see very simple sentences. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why guys answer simple questions? Posted : 10 Aug, 2009 04:01 PM Most likely, I say most likely Kristiankidd, :) he doesn't answer because he doesn't want to. There could likely be a scam or problem here. Any guy that says he wants to meet you but doesn't answer simple questions, run far and fast the other way because he has no business asking you to meet him. If he wants to meet you he should answer your questions and look to your safety. And please do not meet anybody that you do not know well and and doesn't answer every question you need answered BEFORE you meet him. :) Post Reply