Author	Thread: the process of choosing a mate
MissDiva View Profile History	the process of choosing a mate Posted : 3 Jul, 2009 01:03 AM Why do guys always seem to gravitate to girls who can't take care of themselves? Wouldn't it make more sense to find a girl that can compliment your own abilities? For instance, if you found a wife that could not only do housework but also cut grass and do some other minor plumbing jobs, etc., wouldn't it make more sense to think that this is a worthy wife, compared to someone who has a fit if she breaks a nail? Post Reply
View Profile History	the process of choosing a mate Posted : 3 Jul, 2009 05:11 AM dear miss d , well now i would appreciate a woman that can do so many things for herself. and id prolly tell her to learn how to do some more things that needs fixin around here hehe..... but id say all men not only want to feel loved and wanted but also needed. maybe youre not lettin em feel needed enuff? and ive also heard alot of independent women say i can do all this. what do i need a man for ? and when i did i made a mental note to never let myself be attracted to her no matter how beautiful i may of seen her as being.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	the process of choosing a mate Posted : 3 Jul, 2009 12:15 PM Praise the LORD JESUS CHRIST and peace be unto you my sister. Yes, a man as well as a woman desires to feel appreciated. Many women todays seem to flaunt this "i'm independent" attitude as if it is attractive. To me it really isn't. I can understand that a woman don't want a man to think that she wants him for his money and that's good. But she can become so "successful" that she began to raise her standards for a man as well. If he don't equal or exceed where she is then she has no desire for him. I can understand that in a way. At the same time if our successes costs us real love and fulfillment in a relationship, then that's our choosing. Personally, I like being the supporter of my woman. If GOD sends a woman to me who earns much more, then she must have the attitude that she makes much less. Your role as a woman doesn't change with your income level. You are still to submit to your husband. Verse to remember: A woman who is of a meek and quiet spirit is in the sight of GOD of great price. I Pet 3:4 Be transformed by the WORD of GOD and not conformed to the ways of society. Rom 12:1-2 - Praise the LORD. Amen. Thaddeus Post Reply