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This is easy I suppose. Answer me.
Posted : 14 Apr, 2017 06:11 AM

Have you been into a situation or a relationship yet that you find the lady too demanding, how did you handle it and how will you handle this if incase it happens? This is not suppose to be funny, believe me.

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Posted : 14 Apr, 2017 06:51 PM

Your question is too general to give a good answer. Most people will be demanding at one time or another in their lives due to their life circumstances. These demands need to be discussed and ministered to with gentleness. If a person is demanding all the time then again discussion is the place to start and boundaries need to be agreed to. If boundaries cannot be agreed to then it is time to leave out of respect and love for both people involved. This done to honor God.

Again a more specific circumstance would be helpful.



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Posted : 14 Apr, 2017 07:57 PM

If you got me wrong because first, you've never been into a relationship like that I can't do anything about that. I'm not looking for an argument either when I ask "Have you been into a situation or a relationship yet that you find the lady too demanding, how did you handle it and how will you handle this if incase it happens?" Have you been I said and If incase. And this is exactly depends to any situation to anyone who got that right. But don't sound like my question is wrong because that is wrong.

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Posted : 14 Apr, 2017 08:31 PM

O.K. Yes I have been in that situation. No, I did not write or mean to imply that your question was wrong only that I was looking for specifics. I will refrain from replies in the future.

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Posted : 30 Apr, 2017 05:35 PM

Too demanding? I would have to analyze why and in what ways she seems demanding. She wants my time, well OK. She wants an exclusive relationship and we have never met, well, I'm not sure about that. She wants my money? Sayonara.

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Posted : 30 Apr, 2017 06:18 PM

I'm looking for a response that is biblically based because other than this, it will be just full of assumptions. Like someone may say, if this happens to me, i will pray over about it and apply a certain verse like 1 Thess 5:16-18 or I will be reminded of the fruits of the Holy Spirit in Galatians 5:22 because these makes sense. There's a lot I know but I would like to hear it from what I can call a genuine Christian.

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Posted : 4 May, 2017 07:19 PM

It's better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a quarrelsome wife. -Proverbs 25:24



If a woman (who demands time & affection from her husband) does it in a loving and submissive way, she may get much better results that using anger or nagging.



Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. -Proverbs 21:19

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Posted : 6 May, 2017 04:18 AM

Your input is not applicable.

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Posted : 23 May, 2017 06:56 PM

It depends on how important the cross of Christ is to that person. A beautiful woman who "could have married a doctor or millionaire" will, without Christ, be demanding. A woman who has been through war and famine will probably be thankful for humble things. What is the perspective of the woman?

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Posted : 30 May, 2017 11:44 AM

I think you are not getting the type of responses you want because no one understands your question. Perhaps the premise is too broad. Can you narrow it with a hypothetical example?



"Overly demainding" can mean so many things. Give your readers some guidance.



For instance, it could mean any of the following:



too materialistic. Wants money, fancy clothes, jewelry, perfume, nice cars, etc.



Too bossy: nagging--take out the trash, clean the porch, paint the house, mow the lawn, wash the dishes, cook dinner, etc.



too picky: Movie was boring. Dinner at the restaurant was too cold, too salty, service too slow.



too critical: always judging other people's clothing choices (those shoes do NOT match that dress!), what an ugly color. Our paper boy doesn't get the paper on the porch right on the doormat.



Too egoist: Won't go out without being fully made up and dressed. Even if you're going hiking in the woods, she has to have her hair, nails and makeup done.



Many other ideas are out there.

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Posted : 26 Aug, 2017 04:11 AM

Yes I have experienced a demanding relationship. The relationship between me and this forum. You and your question is too demanding. You ask for answers and guys give you their answers then it's not good enough for you. We aren't mind readers here darling. You even mention you're looking for a biblical answer and guys give you that then you say it's not applicable. Me thinks you ask this because you have been told you are too demanding and you're not liking what you're hearing. Only God can give you agope love. Disrespect will send men running quicker than butter sliding off a bald monkeys head.

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