Author	Thread: Ordained Pastor
Admin	Ordained Pastor Posted : 10 Feb, 2017 01:33 PM I became ordained Pastor in 2007 and I started to post my profile here. But only 2-3 men have been talking to me in a very short time and they go angry as we were not in same thinking. acceptable many have viewed my profile but not writing to me. It seems men are frighten to be in a relationship with an anointed woman. I know from talking to other female single Pastors that they also have hard to find a man but male Pastors do have easy to get a woman. Where's the catch to this problem ? How do you think ? Are you seeking only a Christian woman on the paper and not someone living out her faith ? Do you want only a earthly woman that let you stay at home and not join her in the church ? Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 10 Feb, 2017 09:20 PM 1 Tim. 2:11-12 1 Cor. 14:34-35 These verses should answer the broader questions, even the most liberal men tend to be extremely conservative (comparatively if nothing else) when it comes to woman that actually matter to them. For most honestly Christian men messing with the natural order of things in any way is an abomination no matter how well intentioned, thinking trumps feeling at the end of the day. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 11 Feb, 2017 04:37 AM 1 Tim. 2:11-12 I always preach to people that they should read the whole chapter or more and not cut out some sentence from the Bible. There is much to learn from in what time they lived in. In Jesus time was it not allowed for a woman to speak to any man..... not even her own husband ! She had to ask for permit to talk to her husband. What that woman at the well could have cost her EVERYTHING .... she could have been out from her home and village. Jesus knew it that a Samaritan woman was not allowed to talk to him being Jew and also as a stranger and a man. Paul�s restriction was given in the context of a personal letter to Timothy giving advice about a specific issue in the church at Ephesus. Read the first chapter and the same is it for 1 Cor. 14:34-35 that it was problems in those churches..... it was Apollos spirit in them. Jesus mother didn't speak either to the wise men. So it's no wondering if it was forbidden for a woman to speak in any places. To understand the Bible must we learn about the tradition, culture, the symbolic language they used in that time. But I am not search for a man that I can be before him in preaching..... I am glad and thankful if he want to preach instead of me..... BUT as I am single and been anointed by GOD to do His will do I need to preach as long as I have no husband. It is a hard work to preach as I am going in to the HOLY SPIRIT and heal and prophecy ...and all this drain on my own energy so I had to go to sleep for some hours to recover and get back my energy.... I can talk to my husband what I hear from GOD but I want him to preach and if he want some help from me in the church I do it. When the Holy Spirit is on me is it hard to stop HIM from talking from me. It was almost impossible when I was in Kenya as all men had to preach and talk first before I could speak and it could last 2 hours before they let me and in that time was people tired and had going home. I had to tell the men that I can't hold the HOLY SPIRIT back because after some minutes is it something else the HOLY SPIRIT talk about and I can't hold the first saying in my brain as what the HOLY SPIRIT is very fast going away in my brain.....it should only be hold in the brain less than 2 minutes before speaking it out or else it disappears. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 11 Feb, 2017 05:37 AM The problem is that no man have ever send me any message and talked to me to find it out that I waiting for a male Preacher to be like GOD created Adam and Eve to be a partner in take care of our planet. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 11 Feb, 2017 09:01 AM That actually depended on the specific cultural group, there never was a general unwritten law that woman must be walled off. It is true that woman were mostly forced into a subservient role yes but its severity varied wildly. I rather doubt that it was completely contextual advice, if it was there would have been no theological reinforcement added after. What Paul did was give a clear framework for WHY woman should not speak in the church... it should of course be remembered that if God cannot find a man worthy of speaking for him he finds a woman to do it, usually with the result of punishing the men with shame. If you are filling that role you should not be surprised that men feel too emasculated to look you in the eye... the right man with the right kind of strength for that could be more rare than you think. That aside though a lot of people have very little success with online dating... count yourself lucky if you don't keep getting into contact with EXACTLY the wrong kind of person for you... it gets rather annoying tbh. Well that's life. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 11 Feb, 2017 05:20 PM Thank you for your answer. I still believe in make a way for man to come in to my life by be on dating sites as I am never in a bar or out dancing. I have been thinking many times to go to a bar to meet someone but what kind of man do I get ? If I had friends had it been much easier because I could meet him in my friends friends or relatives but I have no friends it is same that even women avoid me because I am a Pastor. People think I can't be fun only because I am a Pastor. On Facebook when I joking no one say anything like they think I can't be fun so they maybe think I am serious when I write joke ? I am very fun person but people go like paralyzed only see me as a Pastor. GOD come to me when I 48 and before that I was out in the wild and party so I am not born in a religion. I have different fathers to my kids and I was never married to them and my daughter.s father and I was in Motorbike business and lived that kind of life ..... It is NOT that I forget where I am coming from and judge people because I have been like them and when I relax I can be the same but not drinking. I'm very spontaneous and find out fun things together with someone. People have so wrong thinking about me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 11 Feb, 2017 10:04 PM If that's really what they think it's due to their own insecurities, nothing can be done about it. You at least take more effort with your profile than a lot of others, especially the young woman that are either too scared to or just don't know themselves yet try to get by on their looks. The right mate at the right time hides very very well for most people it seems... Like Augustan's prayer "God grant me patience and grant it to me now" Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 16 Feb, 2017 09:24 PM God honors the fact that you became a pastor and that you have helped people, and I am sure, you will get your reward in heaven. But I have learned that our "achievements" or good deeds are not what make us attractive when it comes to the dating scene. That's hard to believe, because naturally, one would assume that men or women become attracted when they see a single pastor or an evangelist or missionary with great accomplishments on his/her resume. Those things go out the window when it comes to dating. Here is what matters when it comes to attracting a man : 1. Your looks. How much do you weigh? Do you take care of yourself? Is your face wrinkle free? Your main profile pic needs to be deleted. 2. Your friendliness. As some people get old, they become like old crows. They criticize everything and say negative things to everybody. Everything is wrong. They cuss. They push people. They lose patience quickly. Those are bad qualities, which we are looking for to make sure you do not possess any of those traits. Do you look peaceful and friendly? When you start a random conversation with someone, do you already assume the other person is going to be mean to you? 3. What is your lifestyle? "Is it compatible with my lifestyle?" --- this is what we all ask ourselves. Can we imagine this person in our life, or can we imagine ourselves living in your life? Personally, I love order and a clean house. I love beautiful yard where the grass is cut and leaves are raked. Cats = messy yard that smells like a zoo, so when I hear you breed cats, that's like the biggest red flag to me on the face of this planet. Hahaha Don't worry, there are plenty of people who like cats. But perhaps you shouldn't mention this on here. "Maybe just say you like cats." That would be enough. If I see a woman who says, "I like cats," I still give her a chance, because hey, why not? I like chickens, but if I had to get rid of my chickens in order to get married, I would get rid of them. 4. Flexibility. What are you willing to get rid of in order to find a man? A lot of people say, "Not willing to relocate" or "I am going to live on a farm house with a farmer." I will settle for nothing else. You may want to state what is extremely important to you, that you cannot live without, instead of rambling on about never going to find a man. Also, I see a lot of women copy scriptures and write poetry or Bible teachings on their profile, because they have no idea what to write. Nobody is going to read that. It's a waste of time. There are thousands of profiles here, and we're very quickly trying to find the valuable information on these profiles. 5. What makes you very special. ONE THING. For example, there are a special group of Christians who deny the Trinity. They are called "Oneness Pentecostals." If you have a belief which is very-very much out of the mainstream, and it's important to you, then you may want to mention that, because it makes you extra special. And you want to find someone who is like you. Unfortunately, the more special we are, the harder it is to find someone who is like us. When we are born, we're all the same. We all like smiles. We all like milk. But as we grow up, people become unique. Some people like rock music, others like gospel hymns only, or country music. Some like seafood, others hate it. We have a favorite color, favorite sports team, a favorite place to live, etc. And the older we become, we pick up these unique likes and dislikes that makes it very hard to find someone who is exactly like us. So, the older we are, our list of "requirements" must shrink! Sad, but true. If we look for more and more unique things in a man or woman as we age, then we may never be able to find such a unique spouse. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 16 Feb, 2017 09:34 PM You mention that when a scammer is trying to cheat you, you have a dream about it. God gives you a warning. That's awesome! You are MILES ahead of the game, because most of these scammers prey on older women, assuming they are wealthy. And some of them are not just wealthy but naive and gullible too. They make million-dollar transactions with the Prince of Saudi Arabia or the King of Nigeria, and in the end, it turns out they lose everything they got. So, it's a good thing that you're getting Guidance from Above!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 21 Feb, 2017 02:44 PM Looking at your profile, these comments you make are a BIG turn off to me personally: I am official given up to find a man. There is no righteous man today. Post Reply
View Profile History	Ordained Pastor Posted : 14 Apr, 2017 12:20 AM You never became a pastor. It is a gift of Christ in Eph 4:11 that you cannot have as a woman. Post Reply

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