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Admin	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 13 Oct, 2016 11:12 PM its a question i for one have experienced??? Post Reply
algomaboy View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 22 Oct, 2016 07:52 AM When a woman is critical in her emails to me. This shows me that there is an issue that has to be addressed. I do not like being put down. I also do not like trashy pictures- showing to much of her body. A Christian woman should be conservative in her appearance. Post Reply
View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 24 Oct, 2016 11:43 AM If I see someone is very much caught up in something that is not interesting to me, I may distance myself and eventually stop talking. For example, if someone talks about football all the time, then that might be a problem. I don't watch football. I don't really care about football. I don't even know the rules. But if someone is totally into football, if she can't talk about anything other than football, then it may be time to say goodbye. I don't know. Maybe it's possible for two different people to have a nice friendly conversation when they have nothing in common. Maybe not. I am not sure. I think, getting into a relationship is like landing an airplane. Landing an airplane requires one set of skills, while being able to spot the right airport from the sky requires another set of skills. Just because you landed doesn't mean that you have landed in the right airport. :) I think, people can learn to act nice. And I would dare to say that two random people can be in a relationship regardless of whether they are compatible. If they know how to be nice and respectful and loving, then it's possible. Being nice and lovable is a skill. But just because someone has that skill doesn't guarantee that he or she will pick the right person to marry. That's another skill. Knowing what kind of person to choose is a whole different thing. Some people are here to learn how to land (they just want to get into a relationship and hope it's the right one). And some people have gotten beyond that...they are looking for the right airport. They don't care about learning how to land. They want to find the right person. I think, this site has people who are at various stages. If someone just quits talking to you all of a sudden, probably that person has already been in relationships and now wants to find the right person instead of chatting. Many people are just scanning, looking for the right person. You can sometimes tell from just a few words if a person is definitely not someone you want to marry. We all have different requirements.. For example, if someone used the F word or some cuss words, I would definitely know for sure that this person is not the right one for me. If I suspected that they are lyign to me, I would stop talking to that person. Gossiping is equally bad. Sharing a bunch of negative information about others is also a red flag... Post Reply
View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 24 Oct, 2016 06:52 PM thanks algoma and silver very well said gentlemens Post Reply
irc1 View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 7 Nov, 2016 08:29 AM Her age, if she has been married before and if she has children. The way she write her profile. He wishes to a partner. Post Reply
View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 7 Nov, 2016 07:57 PM What is more important is why I DO contact a woman. 1) A clear picture of her face and body. Yes, I want a general idea of how a potential mate is shaped. I also want a clear shot of her eyes, they will tell me much about her life and what she expects. Bathroom shots, gratuitous shots down the shirt, expensive digs and does not list a job, are all turn offs. 2) What does she write about? Four words? "Ask me" from this i am to decide that she is worthy of attention? Generally not. Clever, insightful, original, and tasteful that tells me she understands the faith and herself. 3) Distance: It is a factor, not the only factor but a factor 4) Age: Too young probably means immature, too old and probably on a different page. 5) Any reference to "mommy first" means a lack of understanding priorities. Of course your children come first until marriage, then no human being should ever be as important as your husband. Post Reply

MJ0828 View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 11 Nov, 2016 12:50 AM Totally agree :) Post Reply
View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 26 Nov, 2016 04:56 PM For me giving one word or vague answers in a response email stops me from continuing the conversation. I feel like they are not serious about getting to know the other person or going through the motions. As far as profiles go.... less information on a female's profile is not a deal breaker for me. I have talked to a female on here in the past that had only a couple of sentences, no photo and very little information about themselves. When we emailed each other.... it was a long and in depth conversation. We did go on a couple of dates. Post Reply
LabourerRenter View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 11 Dec, 2016 08:24 PM I always look at the job and whether the woman is making an honest living or is working at a job that is useless. Post Reply
View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 20 Dec, 2016 08:33 AM Here's my post from someone else asking the same question: Obviously I can't speak for all guys, but the very first thing that would prevent me from contacting a girl is that I simply don't find her physically attractive. Some people might be able to look past the physical, but I'm not one of them. I don't expect a model by any means, but I at least have to be attracted to her. Beauty is literally in the eye of the beholder. I'm too old to be shy. Maybe the younger guys are too shy to contact someone, I used to be, but not any more. I think confidence comes with age too. I like lots of pictures. I prefer pictures that are not from a studio though. I want to see the real person as much as possible, even some with no makeup. Along those lines, I don't care for pics with various types of graphic editing done to them. One thing that will force a guy not to contact a girl are the restrictions they have placed in their profile. That's a function the creators of this site set up. The point is that by limiting the age range or other criteria like smoking and drinking, we will prevent some people from contacting us. Like all these points, it's a personal matter whether or not you want these restrictions in place. So there's my opinion. It's probably worthy what you paid for it. Post Reply
BlessedBenny View Profile History	what stops u from contacting a woman? Posted : 24 Dec, 2016 07:59 AM Hi 1. When you a woman is very beautiful and dresses elegantly, the cowardice nature in a man will say to him, she wont even speak with me because a. she'll look down on me b. I don't have a nice car c. I don't have a prestigious job 2. Most of us men are cowards Post Reply