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No Matches for me ?
Posted : 19 Aug, 2016 01:20 AM

"Currently there are no Matches for you."



I rarely get a match and it has been months since the last match.



I maybe narrow my search too much but what I narrow is the important for me.



I don't want a smoker or a drinker as I not do this to stay sober under GOD.



Then I have a age limit at 53 and up is 99 years of age as I am 63.



but I do not limit any country.



What does this means ?



1. Does this men prefer much younger women ?



2. Is men so very local ?



3. or are men more likely to be a smoker and drinker or one of them ?



I try to not limit GOD but younger than 10 years are not realistic.



Much younger in my experiences are only love-scammer but of course some young men maybe have no limits up but they are extremely rare and if GOD want him to take contact GOD can do it in HIS supernatural way to do things.

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Posted : 20 Aug, 2016 04:29 AM

I think your question involves the algorithm of the search function on this site. The website designers create a program that determines how the searches work. I don't think a guy here can answer your question.



I know when I click the "My Matches" link along the top of the page, all I get are women within about 100 miles of my location. Most of them no longer come to this site though. I find the same thing when I use the basic or advance searches. Most of the women that show up as a result of those searches no longer come to this site.

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Posted : 1 Oct, 2016 09:58 PM

CDFF seems to be strict about age ranges. For example, if someone puts an age range of 45 - 60, CDFF won't allow a person younger than 45 or older than 60 to contact them. I think that's rather harsh, but I suppose some people like it.



You are 63, so CDFF will only show you people who put the age of 63 in their acceptable range. CDFF also seems to limit the distance. This means there would have to be men within the distance (is it 100 miles?) who have put their acceptable age range as including 63. It is certainly likely that there are no people who fit that age and distance criteria on this site, which has rather limited membership compared to the big names.



I have learned to instead go to "New Users" and "Online Now" where you can at least browse people from other areas and age ranges. However, apparently you can't contact someone if you are outside their acceptable age range. But at least this way you can find people from other areas.

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Posted : 22 Oct, 2016 04:20 PM

Thank you dance2cedm,



I have that problem you write about.



I live in Sweden but I am not interested of me i my country or close to me as I have find no one serious in GOD's business ad ads is for them a cheap why to find a partner for a one night stand.



I am serious in GOD as I am a ordained Pastor.



I am looking for an old time start in a relationship like we had before Internet when a relationship could take a little time and not be done so quick.



I was married in Texas and I met him online and we talk in 3 weeks and I flow down to him in Texas and we were married after only a month ...and then we divorced 11 month later.



It was before I knew GOD and even if it was nice to come to know Texas was it too quick.



If I can find a man on the east coast is it no problem as I live close to a International airport.



BUT the problem is that I have to place myself on the east coast in my profile or else do I only get Swedish men in my search and only they can see me.



I am not in to get a green card or staying in USA as I can do it on my own as I am an ordained Pastor in USA and have already a SSN as I have lived and worked in USA for 6 years.



It is much about limitation of how to search is going on and in same sort of websites that it is so very local like they think we can't move for love.



I think men think it is too hard to get a woman from another country or another state but often they think wrong.



Like for me am I use to take care of myself and be independent from a man financial. In Texas was I a sugar-mom as my husband didn't worked and I had my own business in Webdesign.



This week that is coming up do I start my own church from my OWN money.



I have been to Israel 3 times paid by my own money and beside the church do I still have my own business.



My man should never give out 1 dollar for me if he didn't wanted it because I have an income.



It is not fair to think the same of all women from abroad that they want to come to USA for the money.



So many do not know anything about other countries then what they see on TV.... thinking that all countries are poor countries.



I have been here in 15 years on CFF but have never met anyone in person and hardly ever been got any message from someone.



I don't know what I should do or say if a man was interested because it was so many years a man was interested in me ... LOL

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