Author	Thread: QUESTION
Admin	QUESTION Posted : 11 May, 2016 10:05 AM Why do guys ignore profiles of ladies that have viewed them only for them to view back and even send messages to them many months down the line? Post Reply
View Profile History	QUESTION Posted : 25 May, 2016 08:40 AM well to eliminate scams i wait 1-2 days to reply also if a Lady views my profile and does not message me i feel something in my profile was not to their standards and they moved on I know personally i read their profile and then in many cases i have to work up the nerve to message them as for the reply coming months down the line maybe they were not active or were talking to someone maybe at that time there was something on the profile that put them off or was minor but they needed work done in their hearts then later the profile changed and they feel better and messaged soo many reasons \ Post Reply
View Profile History	QUESTION Posted : 4 Jun, 2016 06:15 AM As already noted there are lots of reasons to look at a profile and not send a note. Some of them are positive reasons, some maybe not so much: Pros- A man might sense something in his spirit and decide that God is telling us to move on. There may not be physical attraction. Physical attraction is the basis of romantic relationship and many of us are here for that reason. It stings and that is the truth. I know not every woman likes red-heads or men of my build. Some women require a full head of hair. Sorry, those days are gone. In our minds, we may have read something in the profile that causes us to doubt sincerity or fullness of maturity in Christ. Be equally yoked. A man might decide the profile does not give him enough information to strike up a conversation. I honestly don't know how to respond to "just ask." Cons- (None of which are my reasons) A male may have more women interested in him than he can juggle at any one time. This is not me and I'm pretty sure I don't want it to be that way. A male might be a scammer and God has driven him away from you, be thankful. A male might decide you are "too religious." Again, praise God. Post Reply
View Profile History	QUESTION Posted : 4 Jun, 2016 10:01 AM I totally relate to not knowing what to say to the"just ask" our "tell you later" profile. If I've gone to the trouble of writing up a profile so that someone who has never met me and won't meet me until we get to know each other better has something to talk about, I typically expect whoever I contact to to do the same. I would add that sometimes I read a profile of someone that viewed me and find that although she has written up a very nice profile, there's just not anything I see in it at the time to try to start a conversation about. We may not have much in common to begin with. Then, sometime later down the line I may see her profile again, but this time something sticks out at me that I might want to send a message about and give it a try. Post Reply