Author	Thread: What puts you off?
Admin	What puts you off? Posted : 24 Feb, 2016 01:30 PM When scrolling through profiles what are the top things that put you off or intrigues you? Post Reply
HoosierHomeschooler View Profile History	What puts you off? Posted : 24 Feb, 2016 09:07 PM I am intrigued when a woman expresses a vision for family life similar to my own. If I see that ... and she's not HORRIBLY far away ... I send her a message! I am put off by statements about how sarcastic she is or by an attitude of looking down on men generally. Or other arrogant attitudes. I see this more at another site that is less Christian, but I've seen some of it here with some profiles. And ... I keep scrolling. Post Reply
View Profile History	What puts you off? Posted : 26 Feb, 2016 03:52 AM When someone doesn't even write anything about God, doesn't write anything abot herself, just listing demands, like I want this, I want that and this and thaaaat .... ! ! Shows a selfish attitude Post Reply
View Profile History	What puts you off? Posted : 26 Feb, 2016 05:30 AM This topic comes up so much someone should make it part of a faq Post Reply
View Profile History	What puts you off? Posted : 3 May, 2016 07:00 PM Turn ons: Something intelligent, prudent, and interesting that describes yourself without revealing too much. Intrigue me. A clear picture of your face and your whole person. Yes, I want to consider your general build. Flowers in the background enhances your feminine side. Interests that match something similar to mine. Diversity as well that shows action. Sense of humor. Witty. Church affiliation, active church participation, a well selected verse. Long hair, a bright smile, some energy. Turn offs: When the caption includes "proud mommy" or something similar. They are so tied up in children that I can pretty much see myself coming in last place Pictures of multiple women. Who am I supposed to look at? Again, your best friend and I fall where in your priorities potentially? Ask me... when your only comment is "ask me" what am I supposed to do to generate an intelligent conversation? Strikes me as pure laziness Picture of my potential bride on a bed. Seriously? Picture of you obviously in a public bathroom. No picture of you. One blurry picture. One strange picture of you with Elmo. Tattoos. Pounds of make up. Man bashing, even if some males deserve it. Post Reply
View Profile History	What puts you off? Posted : 7 Jun, 2016 12:00 PM What puts me off? A single picture, especially one that is too small to see your eyes. I want to see what you look like in different environments, different angles and lighting, and yes, a whole body picture too, not just a series of neck up pics. God created me a physical and spiritual being, so both are applicable. Little to no information about you. Even if you aren't providing a list of attributes, give me something to go on, like something from the past that tells me what kind of person you are. Post Reply