Author	Thread: gaining trust
yourtrueone View Profile History	gaining trust Posted : 23 Jan, 2016 01:34 PM Hello, are there any guys out there who can share or advise how to gain a mans trust? I have a good good friend who recently shared his true feelings to me. He has always been there for me, but because of my schedule, I have fallen short on my end of being there for him. Through situations when I could not pull away from work. I have 'left him hangin' and now he says he feels he cannot trust in me or have faith that I even care about him as much as he cares for me. I had good, genuine reasons why I had to cancel plans or had to call off when we were suppose to meet together. I really want this relationship to work, and we have a good long standing friendship, but now I feel like its hurting it too. But he kind of won't let me live it down..what can I do to regain his trust in me? Post Reply
Hark View Profile History	gaining trust Posted : 15 Feb, 2016 07:30 PM Trust is gained a little at a time, step by step. It's difficult to gain, and easy to lose. It's even more difficult to regain. If you can put yourself in his place; maybe you will understand how much more effort you will have to invest in building that trust. I am in a successful relationship now; but until I received this blessing; I suffered numerous failures. First, I wouldn't date anyone who I would not consider marrying. Second, I gave each of the women an earnest of what it would be like to be married to me. I gave them my undivided attention; and be there for them, in earnest, of what our marriage would be like. Post Reply
HoosierHomeschooler View Profile History	gaining trust Posted : 19 Feb, 2016 02:05 PM What's the ratio of times you cancelled to times you went with the guy? If you cancelled 1 time out of 10 ... the relationship should be strong enough to handle that. If you cancelled half the time ... I'd think the same thing he's thinking. Post Reply
antoniobradiano View Profile History	gaining trust Posted : 20 Feb, 2016 04:07 PM !st of all sweety. Trust in a human is no different than in God. Heb 11 shares that. Faith is the substances of things hoped for. There the imagination takes over. In God we always seen him to be there as with humans we always see them failing. Now in relationships we can train ouw minds to trust in the one we love even though they might fall. thats where trur forgiveness comes in. To make another see for themselves. sweety nothin in this world will or can do that. You do what u can and your honest. If another is insecure then they will be. I am from NC. There are many rednecks whos relationships are based on what another can do for me. or from a Mother Father lover seen them fight beat each other divorces. Scared them and assume that women are like that. Basic distructive patterns you see in abnormal psychology. Maybe he isnt the one sounds like he would change after yall got together for the worse. Turn into a control freak. whole point. You cant do or make another have faith in you cause we all seen the failures in humanity. To be a Christian will help stop that. Post Reply