After being in this site for ever an year I am compelled to wonder.... Until today, Nov 29th, my profile was looking for a friend. Oh. I have made real good. Christian friend at the chat rooms.....mission accomplished.
How is it that women whose profiles are looking for marriage partners are still looking well over an year? Same goes for men here.... I see profiles of serious and getting frustrated men still looking.
So, if everyone has been trusting God for a marriage partner why is it that people are looking, bumping into each other and not finding each? If a man's rib is not in his locality or country it could well be out there. Sometimes in the least expected part of the world! Well, no risk no gain... However, before anyone risks get to know more about the person you are attracted to. The chat rooms are a good forum.
Well, as of today I join the thousands of you singles looking for long term relatioships. I wish I knew where this rib was plucked from. I would surely help out the poor guy lol 😂!
You can bet I will be back to share my experience. May be I will then discover why men are walking around without a rib, and so afraid of the thought that their valued rib could be yonder!
Parting shot....if you are single and has been attending your friends weddings for close to an year, you can only be the wedding cake 🎂 or decor..... Just quoting... 😂
A heart break can be divastating. And so is living a lie.... when someone leads you on knowing very well they are not interested in you but in what they can gain from you. Matters of the heart is serious business. No one has the right to hurt other people's feelings when all they did is to fall in love! Unfortunately, some don't care and have left many wounded. It may be more prevalent in online dating.
However, the fact that we are all still here and more are joining every day, is a pointer to our undying hope to find true love. And it is certainly possible! We have chosen to be resilient despite the setbacks. Trust is a risk. No risk, no gain. The fear factor has led to many potential couples bumping into each other and even chatting but each of them has a protective barrier in the name of 'am only here to make friends '. They know deep within there is a connection and are dying to reach out but the fear factor! I am frequent at the chat rooms and there you see people requesting help to reach out. We are more open in the rooms...lol. They have had feelings for someone but are in dilemma. No risk, no gain!
I agree it is not easy to trust. However, it should be different with God. Let us trust Him to lead us to our true love. Meanwhile, step out in to the water and walk in faith! True love is beckoning despite the risk of drowning. Remember, the master of the sea of love is God. If you let Him lead, perfect love will cast out fear. Be strong and of good courage....Joshua 1:9
"How is it that women whose profiles are looking for marriage partners are still looking well over an year? Same goes for men here.... I see profiles of serious and getting frustrated men still looking."
Finding a friend or a best friend or marriage partner is something that can take YEARS. It's not like you just create a profile and next month you log off because you found "the One." It can certainly happen if you're lucky, but usually it takes months and years. So, the fact that people are looking for a long time is really not a surprise to me at all.
Well sweety. I dont plan to get married. I used to be for 12yrs. got 3 beautiful gurls (grown now). But truley content. Dnt get me wrong I enjoy the company of people (not gay) and I do get lonely.
To answer your questions
1st "What do men want in marriage partner?" is like asking what do you want out of life. Your gonna get many different answers.
Many want a submisive women from the 20`s and old testiment (I love an independant expressive woman).
Many want an strong independant woman with a high payin job like most women (to b a golddigger)
Many want a woman just for a sex partner
Plus hundreds more.
Then you asked
2nd. How is it that women whose profiles are looking for marriage partners are still looking well over an year?
This is like child birth. Some try for years never have children and some never do.
Some have more than ought.
Some have one some have 3 so on.
Thing about child birth and life is it is in God`s hand who gives life. We just do the motions and either get kids or not.
With answering the frustrations of not getting someone goes both ways and will not attempt to answer this which can lead to dispair,anger and to long to post. lol.
3rd So, if everyone has been trusting God for a marriage partner why is it that people are looking, bumping into each other and not finding each?
Goes back to like child birth. God will bring to life if we get someone like anything in a Christians life. What is that scrpture say Acts 17:28
For in him we live, and move, and have our being; as certain also of your own poets have said, For we are also his offspring.
Good luck sweety. I love dating (doesnt have to be sexual). Just enjoy life. We are not meant to enjoy life with another in and with another per se many are celabate and are happy.
