Just some random questions... Read at your own risk
Posted : 31 Oct, 2015 05:39 AM
Sooo.. Here goes:
1. In the scale of 1-10(1 being the lowest, 10 highest), how much do men mean when they say that they're "open to making friends no matter the color or race"?
2. Do you prefer messaging girls first, or do you prefer girls who message you first? Why?
3. How straightforward would you like women to be?
4. What's the most ridiculous thing a girl asked you here on their first message?
Just some random questions... Read at your own risk
Posted : 1 Nov, 2015 02:35 PM
H Aimee,
1) I wouldn't know how to answer this, personally race doesn't matter to me but I'm not sure what your asking...some people lie I guess!
2) Honestly, either.
3) Well, the truth is always good,though of course one doesn't have to actually lie in order to with-hold the truth, and I wouldn't hold it against anyone who does that. I'd by lying if I said I don't with-hold the truth about myself all the time! We all have things in our past (or sometimes even present) that we would rather keep to ourselves - at least until we are more comfortable with the person we are about to confide in.
4) The only ridiculous messages are the obvious scammers, giving phone numbers, emails and such, or asking for them...Other than that, I can't remember a 'real' person asking anything that was ridiculous.
My advise to you is just be yourself Sister, let the Holy Spirit in you guide your search for a husband. Don't be impatient for the 'right man' from your own POV, wait on the Lord and do not settle for a husband who doesn't put God first. (Ec 3:1)
Just some random questions... Read at your own risk
Posted : 21 Nov, 2015 09:52 AM
1) the phrase "open to" means they are probably not thrilled with the idea but would probably consider it (or I'm over-analysing)
2) sometimes I message first but it's only when I feel compelled to, mostly when I find the woman's profile very interesting and I do not feel put off by her photo, no looks don't really matter in the long run but there must at least be a bare minimum of real initial attraction
3) straightforward in what sense specifically? Interest? Only say you really really dig a guy If you really really mean it.... and don't mean it with every second idiot you see
4) "WOW you're from Africa?! Tell me about it!!" ....I ended up only emphasising the the bad points out of sheer irritation,
Just some random questions... Read at your own risk
Posted : 28 Nov, 2015 08:32 AM
1. In the scale of 1-10 (1 being the lowest, 10 highest), how much do men mean when they say that they're "open to making friends no matter the color or race" ?
I can only speak for myself, I am completely open to making friends with people of other races. Now, here the word "friend" means just friend, nothing more. When it comes to marriage, race does matter to me. But I would be friends with anybody regardless of race or color. So, I would say 9 or 10.
2. Do you prefer messaging girls first, or do you prefer girls who message you first? Why?
I like to message them first. When a girl starts a conversation with me, it seems to me like she is too desperate. And that's okay, but chances are I am not attracted to that kind of girl.
3. How straightforward would you like women to be?
On a scale of 1 to 10, I would prefer 7 or 8.
4. What's the most ridiculous thing a girl asked you here on their first message?
I don't know. But I remember one time I was chatting with someone. I looked at her profile, so I knew she was much older. But she didn't look at my profile, and she assumed that I am her age. She found out later. LOL It was funny. But we had a nice conversation. I had a different profile picture back then.
Just some random questions... Read at your own risk
Posted : 6 Dec, 2015 11:43 AM
Hey Aimee... just another view...
1. In the scale of 1-10(1 being the lowest, 10 highest), how much do men mean when they say that they're "open to making friends no matter the color or race"?
I'm in the 9 and up. Reason is that I've been prejudged before so I stay away from a certain ethnicity... sad but it's true. (God forgive me...)
2. Do you prefer messaging girls first, or do you prefer girls who message you first? Why?
Either way is fine. Sometimes I see a profile that I enjoy and comment to them on it ...
What I don't like are those that contact me but haven't read my profile. Yes, it is a very very long one, but if they were truly interested, at least read it to find out about me.
3. How straightforward would you like women to be?
Straight as an arrow... honesty and transparency is my pet peeves... that's how God wants us to be.
4. What's the most ridiculous thing a girl asked you here on their first message?
My personal contact information... I don't give them out until I get to know a person well first.
Another are things already stated in my profile... showing me that she didn't read it at all. (See answer for question 2)
I have a request... how about your answers to your questions? Would you mind sharing also?
Just some random questions... Read at your own risk
Posted : 20 Feb, 2016 06:28 PM
1. In the scale of 1-10(1 being the lowest, 10 highest), how much do men mean when they say that they're "open to making friends no matter the color or race"?
5-6 Need to redo this question. Impossible for any many to answer without biasness and unsure what "opening to making friends no matter the race or color. In NC the race and color are one with all bigots. I come from a Racist family that made me not like my own race. I have to check myself at times to not not like my race. God said love your neighbor as your self. This question will get only certian racist answers. AND It is impossible for any one man know what other men mean. it is like understanding this statement.
She has alot of understanding. What? What specifically does she understand or if she does at all this is a Universal quantifier.
http://nlp-mentor.com/universal-quantifiers/
2. Do you prefer messaging girls first, or do you prefer girls who message you first? Why?
I do both some girls scare me meaning. like waynes world "Im not worthy" lol.
3. How straightforward would you like women to be? Like for real in stead of quess what I want u to do then get chewed out for not knowin. I dont stay around then. Reason why most guys leave.
4. What's the most ridiculous thing a girl asked you here on their first message? What is you email. Really. your some fat guy trin to hack into my firewall. look up serogates with bruce willis
