jz stunned when an ex viewed my asking for help about an online game he jz taught me after we became friends again as an act of asking for a relationship with him again. i keep on wondering if this is also the line of thoughts of other guys here. please let me have a bit of what u think guys. thanx in advance for ur replies.
we were in a relationship before then we had misunderstanding and were not in good terms since then..but lately we'd been communicating again because of an online game. We tried to be friends and talked about the past. We are honest with each other that we jz want to befriend each other. But then, He is adept in an online game im interested in and so i asked help from him , as a newbie, he taught me about the game at first and lead me all the way to enjoy the game. from time to time..i send him messages about some confusions i have with the game, twas then that he told me that he's not interested in getting married, he has no intentions of being in a relationship again, i was very confused and i get slighted for what he told me.
Because of this, i posted this stem coz i want honest replies from men, does my action really imply asking for a relationship from a man? if this case is with u, wud u take it as that?
Well, you shouldn't jump to conclusions about what he thinks. He may have a change in circumstances and no longer wants a relationship. You have to understand if you left on bad terms he probably does not want to go through hurt again, right?
If you are just friends now, you don't need to discuss marriage and relationships, do you? He is in charge of his own life, so he might make choices that you don't agree with.
If you both want to be friends, and you are both friends now, there is no problem, is there? I think you should just continue being friends and be kind to him, and be there if he needs you, and hope that he does the same. You can both carry on spending time in the game as friends.
Im the "ex" in question. One of my cousins, who still posts here, told me Sharon had posted this question on this forum. I actually had to reactivate my account.
I would have preferred that she didnt make this public, but now that she has...
1. Sharon and I were "talking" several years ago.
2. I played a FB game called Kingdoms of Camelot on FB. Been playing the game for years.
3. I friended alot of people on the game. Including women. There was nothing "romantic" about friending them. You actually friend people to create knights in the game.
4. We "broke up" because I had friended a young girl and that girl told everyone I was going to marry her. The girl was 18 years old at the time. I have clothes older than her.
5. Sharon freaked out at the time and told me she hated me and called me all kinds of names.
6. A few weeks ago, she contacted me on facebook and apologized. I accepted her apology and talked to her about the game. She became interested and started playing. I helped her with the game.
7. After a week or two, she friended my mother, who also has a fb account. She began messaging her.
8. Not only did she start blowing me kissing online (muuuaaahhhh) etc., but she began to ask my mother questions such as, "Is he still single?", "Does he have a girlfriend?"
9. I told her that I had forgiven her for calling me names and such and had accepted her as a friend. I also told her that I had no intention of getting married or even dating, anyone.
After my cousin told me about her post here, I came back and read it. I had to respond because she made it seem as if my response was "out of the blue". That there was no reason for it.
Now, giving her the benefit of the doubt, she really may not have understood why I reacted the way I reacted. However, it was not without reason. She seemed to be, how shall I put it? Her interest in me seemed to be coming back and I had to "nip it in the bud" before it went too far.
Hi, thank you for your response. Now I'm sure things will be resolved with you now, since you are being honest, and I'm sure there will be no more misunderstandings with you. It's nice to see you both not being hostile about this and I'm sure you can both put all this behind you and move on with no hard feelings.
Worship the Lord in the spirit of truth and may He bless you both :waving:
the velocity of salmonon said somethng about a season for all,,?.
sew a dull season or four/six occassionally can lead to exsecieve,gaming,in a season of game vs. complete polar flippin galactik meltdown,aka,a pet toy for the patients of patience?
"Her interest in me seemed to be coming back and I had to "nip it in the bud" before it went too far."
its nice of u to over-think things are....i not have to explain any further how our exchange went through then..all i know is all about the game..which i say i got hooked on to....which u took as if its on u..nice then..u got that feeling..u still get affected with how im really am.... it was jz me... the real me and u took it differently...
as to ur mom..the wonderful lady i met because of koc, which i like more than u, had been graciously affable to me which u'r very much indifferent with.
and as to ur cousin telling u of my post and u reactivating ur account jz because of this..all i can say is.. ..tell it to the marines scott,,,, as some of ur people say it....
