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lowilker View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 21 Jul, 2014 05:25 PM I have to admit, I get really frustrated. I wonder what I am doing wrong. I'm a african american woman. I'm not skinny. I'm not real overweight, but I am overweight. When I am on the dating sites, I write what it asks me; about my personality,what I'm looking for etc. However, when I express interest, I am told in not so many words that you are overweight, and I'm looking for someone better, i.e. not overweight. Guys, is the number one thing you look for is for someone who is skinny? Are you interested in dating outside of your race or is that a forbidden thing? What am I doing wrong? Should I just stop trying? Post Reply
flyby View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 21 Jul, 2014 07:21 PM Well lo, its kinda like this for me, there�s tooth pic, skinny, fit, pleasing plump, big and huge, something for everyone, it�s all in the eye of the beholder! No one currently here has a mate or we wouldn�t be here, we�re all in the same boat so don�t give up besides anyone who teaches 1st grade has got to be doling out the blessings! If I knew exactly what I was looking for Id place an add like a car! it�s kinda like that box of chocolates, ya never know what�s inside, so its good to sample (email) a few. O, and I only race dirt bikes. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 21 Jul, 2014 08:27 PM some guys won't date outside their race some won't date overweight. There is nothing that you are "doing wrong." online dating doesn't work in general. Post Reply
lowilker View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 21 Jul, 2014 11:39 PM Thanks flyby. You brought a smile to my face! Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 23 Jul, 2014 05:16 AM Keep trying sister. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. One may say he likes slender,another may like full figured... Love yourself just the way you are and believe you are the best and you will get the best choice through God's will. Don't give up. Post Reply
TravisjustTravis View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 23 Jul, 2014 03:16 PM There are some girls that guys want to date, and then there are some girls that guys want to marry. Focus on becoming more like GOD, (see proverbs 31) Girls tend to not realize that beauty is subjective, they also tend to not realize how attractive a confident woman is...so just focus on becoming who GOD wants you to be, and the rest will come. Post Reply

Apostelle View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 24 Jul, 2014 03:27 PM Being chubby means one of two things to me. 1. She eats at fast food joints all the time. 2. She knows how to cook. If its the second, Im good with chubby. Ive courted a number of ladies, but most of them couldnt boil water. They have to be able to cook as well as I cook. Race really means nothing. Thats just the house in which your soul dwells. Whats more important is to find someone who is moral and, above all, loves God with all their heart. Someone who obeys His teachings. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 24 Jul, 2014 04:48 PM Apostelle......what an interesting response(smile)! Though I quite understand your sentiment, I'll hope others see it the same:rolleyes:! Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 24 Jul, 2014 06:13 PM @Apostelle what if she eats at fast food joints AND knows how to cook? Post Reply
View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 24 Jul, 2014 08:42 PM Ah George! So curious:bouncy: :purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel::purpleangel: Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	What do you look for in a woman? Posted : 27 Jul, 2014 04:27 PM @CuriousGeorge. lol I really dont like fast food. Most of it makes me want to gag. Many years ago, my mother said to me, "You need to learn to cook. You like good food, and since few women these days would meet what you are looking for, you may never get married". So, I learned to cook. I learned everything my mother had to teach me, then I expanded by studying other cultures cuisines. I really do like good food. As for women, God created women to be chubby, not these sickly looking stick figures the media proclaims as healthy. The extra bit of fat was given to them so that in lean times, when food was scarce, they would survive. The same with their metabolism. It is slower than men's metabolism. The so-called "healthy" women portrayed in the media appear to me as if they have some sort of wasting disease or just came out of a concentration camp. Post Reply