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Posted : 11 Jul, 2014 02:46 AM

I met men that seemed so in love... Staring at me. Turning their head 180� when they see you with their eyes wide open.... Smiling... Talking sometimes but when you start responding they're done. They look at you proudly or they ignore you. It seems that they turned the page and as soon as you do the same they seem to be attracted to you again. It's getting like a game. Why do they never try with that girl they're interested to?

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Posted : 11 Jul, 2014 09:49 AM

I am not understanding what you are saying... try putting it another way?

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Posted : 11 Jul, 2014 10:05 AM

I know this is the guys thread, but can I interject for a moment here? I believe the sister is just simply asking....why does a man who seems very interested and attracted to women, suddenly lose interest? Then when the women responds the same by moving on, the guy then wants to re-ignite his interest in her! To her it feels as if a "game" is being played!



My sister is that basically what your trying to express?

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Posted : 11 Jul, 2014 06:57 PM

If the above as true.



For me, at least on the online seen I don't mind making the first move.



I can start a conversation and keep it going.....I start to get bored when I feel like it is only a one way street and start losing interest. To me it feels like I am talking to a computer with automated responses.



I understand that sometimes online a women replying to you means she is interested in you but at the same time if you can't start and carry on a conversation why should I keep trying?

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Posted : 12 Jul, 2014 11:00 AM

they get cold feet

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Posted : 12 Jul, 2014 01:52 PM

Yes sister that's what i'm trying to say

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Posted : 13 Jul, 2014 03:46 AM

Some idiots only want someone they can't have, you actually become more attractive to them when you are leaving. Maybe you are attracting the wrong men?

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Posted : 13 Jul, 2014 06:44 AM

Sometimes people like just getting the attention, or aren't mature enough to know what to do with it once they have it.....the whole idea of " playing it cool " so they don't screw things up perhaps? Acting disinterested so they have you chasing them .. And not necessarily to play games, people are not usually comfortable with being openly honest... I myself know how much being fully honest with people can backfire when it comes to feelings of sentiment...it's too intense. The way of communicating these emotions is either awkwardly uncomfortable for the recipient, OR they aren't really sure how to do it because traditionally guys aren't encouraged to show softer or tender emotions ( that skill of expression is something that should be encouraged) unfortunately then on the otherwise there is women who have been taught that the archetype for a man should be strong, silent, overly masculine etc etc. and will only find this persona attractive , not understanding the drawbacks of having those trademark personality traits..HENCE the cat and mouse

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Posted : 14 Jul, 2014 02:44 AM

Rambo maybe that's true. But i'm tired of being chased by that type of guys. At first, they seem so interested and when you fall a little bit for them they ignore you.



Men maybe can't be honest. But the majority do that.

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Posted : 14 Jul, 2014 09:36 AM

Sand123,



I don't know your age, but as you get older this same method doesn't change. In my age range (40s to 50s), the men act the same way. Really childish....and who has time to waste??

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Posted : 16 Jul, 2014 12:26 AM

Godhaschosenhim that's true it means they are not mature enough... It's a total waste of time

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