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Strebe View Profile History	Hi Posted : 5 Jun, 2014 11:47 AM My name is Michelle I want to know how come men breaking up with me only be cause they cheat or when I say I love you it offends one of them. I don't get it. I am sad be cause I have done nothing wrong and I feel like I am nothing to them and I am scared to be dating because I am scared they will cheat or leave me no good reason need help with answers Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi Posted : 6 Jun, 2014 12:59 PM Perhaps you say yes too easily and get the wrong men? Just guessing. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi Posted : 6 Jun, 2014 01:35 PM I used to be really scared of dating similar to the reasons. I hated being let down and left hanging all the time. Then I found things to go do that make me happy so that when I did get let down, it wasn't as devastating as it was before because I could just go do what made me happy and not worry about it. So I say find things to do that make you happy and feel good and just go do that when you get let down. Post Reply
Strebe View Profile History	Hi Posted : 6 Jun, 2014 02:00 PM Every time I say yes then they change their minds a few months down the road Its like I feel like I am not the right one for any one Michelle Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi Posted : 7 Jun, 2014 01:22 AM If you can make yourself happy, then it doesn't matter, and, what's more, you'll be far more likely to find the right guy for you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi Posted : 7 Jun, 2014 07:03 AM "Every time I say yes then they change their minds a few months down the road Its like I feel like I am not the right one for any one" Well, if you say yes and they change their minds, then you shouldn't say yes. Perhaps you could say yes only with your actions. Have you tried that? Post Reply
Strebe View Profile History	Hi Posted : 7 Jun, 2014 10:27 AM I have tried and it don't help the only reason I say I love you to my friends is so I don't think they don't want to be my friend. Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi Posted : 8 Jun, 2014 03:32 PM I don't think it's a good idea to say "I love you" to friends. It may be okay once or twice, but if you overuse this phrase, then it loses its meaning and people will not know when you are serious and when you are not. There was a girl at my church who said "I love you" to everyone, and I thought something was wrong with her. I am not sure what she was trying to accomplish with this, but everybody was trying to get away from her and leave her alone. If she was trying to distance herself from others, then it worked! :P Post Reply
Strebe View Profile History	Hi Posted : 14 Jun, 2014 05:44 PM ALL MY FRIENDS TELLS ME THEY LOVE ME And then if I dont say it then they ask why dont you love me at alll Michelle Post Reply
View Profile History	Hi Posted : 15 Jun, 2014 07:43 AM Michelle, this world is full of men and women who will honour you with their lips, but their hearts will always be far from you. The tongue of those who practice deceit hate their unwitting victims, and the glad recipients of their flattering words will be brought to ruin. Your friends who demand you to profess your love through the medium of speech are blinded fools. If I had such friend, I'd ask them how they had failed to notice the small repeated things that I did for them day in and day out, you know, the little things that those who are not worthy of me would take for granted? then I'd bring a swift end to that interpersonal bond. Your identity should be with Christ, and not with those who live to deceive and be deceived. Their rejection is as meaningless as their opinions are worthless. God bless. Post Reply
Strebe View Profile History	Hi Posted : 19 Jun, 2014 07:11 PM No one knows what I am going through I found someone to talk too but I just don't see how I am special enough and he thinks I am special. But on the other hand I am scared to date only because men don't tell the truth I know he don't lie but I am scared. Michelle Post Reply