Author	Thread: I miss our chats...
sisygirl View Profile History	I miss our chats... Posted : 24 Mar, 2014 09:29 AM Hi Brandon! It's good seeing you still partaking and posting in the forum. For a while I thought you've gaven up on this site. If you don't mind dear can I ask you for a man's view on my post on the ladies forum, about a us weman presenting ideas of laying a foundation of a long tern relationship. The post can easily be misunderstood since I internationally chose a 'crucial' passage as my ideal verse of laying a foundation. Reason I did that wasn't so I define God as being 'weak or intimidated' (there's no such in His personality and charector) as I made use of those words when lacking better words of describing better how He must have felt. (its very important that you get that right dear friend) The reason I did... Is simple cause I would be having such confidence on my partners level of wisdom and maturity. If unity would have benefited evil intentions to a point were God admits that this team will surely achieve its mission, then we can only imagen if the same strategy would have been used to glorify Him how things would have turned out as He would have been approving delightfully. Joy has shared her passage too of a scripture that she thinks can be used as a foundation of a long term relationship that will hopefully lead to marriage. You're most welcomed to consider what she shared too if willing to do so, i'm not limiting you dear. (for some reasons it matters to me what she has to share in the forum) The main reason i'm asking for a man's opinion on this... Was kinda wondering if by any chance the out come may not be as well as the lady has meant this. Misunderstanding are often there hey in relationships. How will you (man) address this in a way that you don't hurt her feelings, but only coming out honestly and saying that "You were not thinking along those lines yet. Maybe you were a little layed back and taking this easy." Will this change how you viewed and taken this relationship before having this conversation? Please share the changes that would have occurred after you two have had this talk. Miss interacting with you friendship! :nahnah: Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	I miss our chats... Posted : 24 Mar, 2014 09:33 PM I interntially chose a crucial passage as my idea verse of laying a long term relationship. Correction on my first paragraph, there's lots of spelling errors. Post Reply
View Profile History	I miss our chats... Posted : 24 Mar, 2014 11:02 PM Heh, I think there was one of yours I said I was going to post on and then promptly disappeared for a few months. That won't happen this time though. Good talking to you again too, as always, my friend. Post Reply
View Profile History	I miss our chats... Posted : 24 Mar, 2014 11:43 PM Well, the textbook way in which communication works is a message is encoded by the sender, decoded by the receiver, and from there any clarifications will be discovered and addressed synergeticly until a mutually shared meaning is created by both sides and satisfied with what was meant and what they wanted to communicate. Basically it just comes down to how well the two people communicate with each other. Yes, miscommunication happens almost constantly, which is why clarification is a step in that process. As to what his response would be, I don't think the female bringing it up should be an issue at all, and if it was, that would be a huge red flag for such reasons as either he's unreceptive to the Bible, doesn't value your thoughts, feelings, and input, and/or a whole host of other things. Does that help? Is that what you were getting at with your question? Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	I miss our chats... Posted : 26 Mar, 2014 05:54 AM Hello again! Now i'm the one who disappeared hey? Which book are you referring to on your first paragraph? Think there's much to learn from it about communication. And thank you dear friend for sharing your thought on this. "Basically it just comes down to how well the two people communicate with each other. Yes, miscommunication happens almost constantly, which is why clarification is a step in that process." Found my answer on that paragraph... Thank you so much! Post Reply
View Profile History	I miss our chats... Posted : 27 Mar, 2014 02:39 PM Oh good. Glad you found it helpful! I don't really remember what the book was called that I got that out of other than that it was a textbook we used in college. Post Reply