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where can I meet a nice christian girl?
Posted : 28 Jan, 2014 05:02 PM

I have some questions for the other guys on this site? Do you run across scammers here? I have had several that when we chatted on yahoo said they were from guana and their profiles said usa! Also are you having any success here or are their better Christian dating sites than this one? I don't mind paying a little if there is a better site than this one!

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Posted : 28 Jan, 2014 11:05 PM

@JesusLives4Ever: Forgive me for answering this thread.. I know that it is "Ask A Guy" but your question triggered me to post a reply..So, I hope you don't mind me writing you a response here..



I have tried 2 other dating sites and to be honest I haven't found a nice Christian men there. Some users are nice, but unfortunately they are not Christian or even with no religion. Some users who are Christian say on their profiles that they smoke and drink.. Some others even approached me to have one-night-stands or things like that :(



I found it hard to look for the right one there.. That was why I tried this site, hoping to find a nice Christian man..



Scammers are everywhere, not only in this site but in other sites, too. I think the best way to avoid them is by stating clearly in our profile that we look for serious long-term relationship that leads to marriage. And also to be extra careful when chatting or texting.. not to mention too many personal information to people we barely knew from the internet. It is quite exhausting to do this, I know.. but the right person for us won't come easily.. we have to go extra miles to look for such person and open our eyes and heart..



If we keep looking for and being sincere to others, I think it is just about time. God will eventually send us the best person to spend the rest of our lives with..



Thank you for reading this reply. Please don't be mad at me because I posted on this "Ask A Guy" thread. I'm just giving you a reply based on my point of view. Thank you :)

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Posted : 30 Jan, 2014 07:39 PM

Well if you are going to go seeking then this is as good place as any...Look outside of your immediate community though and probably you will have to look outside of your own nation...unfortunately there are as many totally unrealistic women here as there are in any other world....Many of the women on this site say they want a man who will put God first, but the reality is that if any guy puts anything at all before the woman in the relationship then he is going to suffer the consequences... Nice Christian woman...there are some here...just go to the chat forums and make yourself known to them...

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Posted : 31 Jan, 2014 06:42 AM

Thank you sir; I agree with you about the part of putting God before the woman and you will suffer the consequences! One thing hard for me I am 39 and never married! All my life I have looked for a single woman also and never married but it seems the only ones interested in me was divorced women and I am not interested in a relationship that is against the bible! Also the American women seem like all they want are fancy houses and fancy cars and fancy clothes. If you don't have a 100,000 a year salary they wont give you the time of day! America is becoming pathetic! Even the foreign women want a rich man!

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Posted : 31 Jan, 2014 06:44 AM

thankou miss for replying! I am not angry with you and sorry you have run into the same things I have! The world is becoming more and more wicked! We are living in the days of Sodom and Gomorrah and Jesus is coming soon! Stay fsithful to Him!

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Posted : 21 Feb, 2014 05:43 PM

I'm sorry to tell you, that I to have found many scammers on many sites. And for me, its very hard to find a Christian woman. Because must of the females on theses sites ether want sex or money. So a commitment is not in the equation. I have used a test, which is, At first I do not say I am celibate. And that's when I get the responses. But the moment I say I'm celibate, no more responses. So this test tell me one thing, The women on theses sites are women who are damaged and they have not submitted to the Lords will. Yet they still seek out men and not saved ones. The bible never gives a woman the right to seek a man, but a man must seek a wife. And when he finds her then he will taken on this blessing.



The Question where can you meet Nice Christian women! DO as I am doing wait on the Lord because the devil has many trashy daughters. Peace.

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Posted : 22 Mar, 2014 04:17 PM

Sir forgive me for replying to your post as I'm new to this forum. However I saw a lady did reply as well. So here goes, I too did reply to other Christian sites and to my luck they were black sheep in wool's clothing. My advice to you sir would be this only because it has taken me a long time to get to where I'm now at heart wise and where I'm now at with GOD. At first I personally thought I needed and wanted a mate cus I think of how GOD made us as human's. Then through all my Bible studies I had so much self reflection as to what exactly GOD was showing me that it was me he was working on. I didn't need to seek a mate until I healed ME first. For I couldn't provide anything healthy to a new relationship until I was 100% with myself and with GOD as my center. Which has been hard. This means you have to lay down all your yuck, forgive those who have hurt you. All the storms you have been through or are going through you have to HEAL from that and MOVE forward. THEN you pick yourself up and brush yourself off and move forward again. CLEAN and new and ready to find what GOD has for you when he sees it's time. The waiting isn't always easy and time can sometimes harden your heart. HOWEVER again through a good God center Church and a Great pastor. You can and will get through anything. Keep reading the word and stay in prayer. God will direct you to whom he brings to your life. Patience is a virtue sir. I wish you well on your adventure.

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