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Deandra29

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Posted : 18 Dec, 2013 01:40 PM

Secretive and elusive profiles, I thought we all are Christian who receive our Strengths and confidence through the Lord....I have went through thousands of profile, 80% of men don't have any pictures available and have brief and vague profiles...but in search of a Proverbs 31......woman....:ROFL: In my opinion many of these men are cowards and lack self-esteem and fear rejection...am I right fellas.....? If not please enlighten me...!

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Posted : 18 Dec, 2013 03:52 PM

That's too bad. I try to be different and stand out with my openness...but I'm sorry you find that so many other people don't! I've been similarly disappointed with the vast majority of women's profiles...most are one to a few sentences. I'm not sure how realistic this is, but I conclude that if they're not going to put in the effort, I probably don't want to talk to them--how much effort would they put into an actual relationship?

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Posted : 18 Dec, 2013 04:47 PM

Oh..no honey, don't be sorry....as I do appreciate your input, and agree with your conclusion of our decision to entertain vague and elusive profiles I absolutely agree, it show in depth a quick view of personality types and what a relationship would be like...dull, boring, lack of communication...a relationship destined for failure...I an sure as time go by, many will get the hint or be some of the ones searching on this site for 2 and 3 years...I noticed this one guy have had his profile on this site for about 5 years and was currently online today actually...lol.....! I would re-evaluate life if I was him....!



Neither here nor there honey...I wish you the best on your journey with the Lord and your search for friends and love....remember, keep your faith string and you won't be on here forever.....!

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Posted : 19 Dec, 2013 03:32 AM

Not everyone who is here just for marriage.

Many are here to make friends and even to learn from these forums so I believe they can be here many years.Those who are here for just relationships get partners and go,others stick even after getting.

It all depends on what one wants.

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Posted : 19 Dec, 2013 05:53 PM

Women's profiles are the same way. Since you have to create a profile just to get on here lots of people just do what they have to do to get that done, look around and then leave. Focus on the guys that give you something that lets you know what they are about. If they participate in the forums read what they talk about and have to say. Just stick around long enough to let people get to know you and good things will start to happen. You'll make some friends and allies her and just might meet the person you're looking for.

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Posted : 20 Dec, 2013 09:56 AM

Your question, amongst one or two other attitudes posed, appears to be the question of someone who is predisposed to not just find disappointment in a profile but to extrapolate and find disappointment where ever there is room to exercise your patronizing attitude. Your own profile seems to be a classic example of this..the biggest attribute written about is the size of your ego.

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Posted : 20 Dec, 2013 11:26 AM

You were on here to answer a question honey, not try to read me or my profile......as you are one of the ones I speak of after i had a chance to peruse your profile as well. Because I have integrity, self esteem and confidence now a girl have to have a EGO......so what if I do. Misery love company, you could have kept what you thought was important to your self honey it really wasn't. As I know who I am, do you?

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Posted : 20 Dec, 2013 11:34 AM

....btw: ROFL:...coming from someone dang near 60 years of age, no picture, and many other qualities that should have told you not to even be looking at my profile. I wish the filters worked better....It sucks even if I can't accept messages from people out of the age bracket, residing in another country and have no pictures available....they can still view my profile.



Thanks for acknowledging my great qualities though darling....

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Posted : 20 Dec, 2013 10:05 PM

Your qualities as you call them are patronising in the extreme but what the heck that is who you are after all. As for knowing you...no I do not know you and truthfully I have no wish to ...I am simply responding to your supposed questioning observation regarding men on cdff...like I have already said ...patronising and egoistic...Have a deserving life

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Posted : 21 Dec, 2013 08:37 AM

If there are any men on here who can answer the question without ranting about....please do so.



And if you must rant take it the ask a girl forum, as this is not the place for non related remark and or replies.

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Posted : 21 Dec, 2013 11:14 AM

Not posting a picture may in hindsight reveal a deceptive personality, and should be a red flag no matter the gender of the poster. However, are you able to accurately determine this is being practiced by men more than it is by woman here on CDFF?



Not only do I get a lot of views from woman who do not have a picture posted, I also gets winks and messages from the same.



Consequently, from my point of view you sound as if you are pre-disposed to be very judgmental against men. On the other hand, and at the same time you dare anyone to look past a cartoon image to see where you are coming from.



Still, I wish you the best in your endeavors here......... whatever they truly are.



Doug

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