Author	Thread: does the word "love you too" mean anything?
Admin	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 11 Dec, 2013 08:11 AM when a man says "love you" expects to hear "love you too" and if you respond otherwise, doesn't really like it. but, what does it mean saying love you too when i actually don't mean it? why do you always expect ladies to love back immediately after meeting them? why dont you want to give them enough time to love you back? why do you hate the word "i like you so much?" Post Reply
View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 11 Dec, 2013 10:58 AM Never say something important unless you mean it. If you comply just for the sake of peace he might later think you are a liar if nothing else. Post Reply
View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 11 Dec, 2013 11:45 AM i agree with you, but most men want to hear only one word," love you too" they dont mind about ones feelings.sometimes ladies are pressurized to say what they don't mean, thats why most are seen as scammers, liars etc Post Reply
View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 11 Dec, 2013 03:09 PM I blame it on one thing "infatuation". Many a time, infatuation sets in, deluding our minds that we are in love with someone, whereas we aren't. When people are infatuated, they want that circle to complete by having the other person have the same infatuation or not. That is why you see people pester the other. Love is always PATIENT and it comes from within to without. Post Reply
dunravin View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 11 Dec, 2013 07:02 PM ...."love you too" is not one word, it is three and the context and responses are different from one individual to another. You have made some serious errors of judgement in your short diatribe thus one of necessity must consider the very nature of the question you actually pose and why you have posed it. In essence I would state that it could be the same as any other platitude, for example the phrase...bless you...it can certainly be a platitude but not necessarily so...some people actually mean what they say...bless you ...with what...zits...chicken pox...mumps...sometimes it is the context and sometimes it is the heart intent that has merit. "Love you too" may well be a platitude but if one analyzes everything that is uttered then there is no truthful meaning in anything, according to the perspective of the person it is directed at. Analysis of such beautiful words proves very little except in the context of the heart attitude..'Love you too" is very different from, I love you too..attitude and context. Post Reply
View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 11 Dec, 2013 07:56 PM I think it is not true when you say "most men." You mig ht feel it is true but that is how you feel from your perspective. I think this is a common response many men and women have to the same when the opposite sex tells them they love them. When women tell me that if I do not say it back right away they feel bad. I can just tell in the conversation. When you do not say it back that relationship becomes unbalanced. When a person tells you that they are taking a risk of you rejecting them and if you don't say something back you are rejecting them. At that point they have every right they want to leave and move on just like you have the decision to make of whether or not you love them or not. The issue is not that they expect as much as they want. This is a basic principal of meeting somebody. Robert Post Reply
View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 12 Dec, 2013 01:20 AM love is PATIENT and that's what everyone should understand. when one asks the other to be patient, its like you don't care, you put less effort, youre not passionate, brrrrr. Yet a little patience, can yield more than what you expected. Post Reply
dunravin View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 13 Dec, 2013 11:16 PM You quote Scripture as ...love is patient....love in the relational context is rarely scriptural and rarely patient and to use love as a platitude or as a sop to ego, as in the context of "love you too" would tend to indicate that your understanding of male/ female relational love is extremely limited. To use scripture in an attempt to validate an inability to make constructive choices would tend to infer that patience is not in fact a virtue and to the contrary the relationship dynamic is very one sided. To demonstrate a hurt simply because one party in the relationship is feeling insecure is simply crass manipulation. The lesson to be learned from this is not to denigrate the agape aspect of love into the eros aspect of love or worse yet the pathos aspect. In other words if you are going to say I love You to someone put your insecurities aside and your ego under a rock and actually mean what you say. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	does the word "love you too" mean anything? Posted : 17 Dec, 2013 10:16 PM Thanks for the post. I like the responses and have learnt and now i'm enlighted . I like Robertlee's post,has put some light on the issue. Post Reply