Author	Thread: No real Gentelemen in here
misdiane View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 1 Nov, 2013 07:37 AM That's my observation. Men don't even have the respect to write back. It's an insult. A sentence or 2 to decline isn't much to ask. Where are the real gentleman nowadays?Even the ones claiming to be christians don't reply. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 1 Nov, 2013 08:07 AM read the other threads. the ladies do the exact same. Post Reply
dunravin View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 1 Nov, 2013 11:37 PM Perhaps the question is really ...what is a real gentleman? I think that to put all men in the same category and denigrate them is not only unfair but does no justice whatsoever to the many fine and upstanding gentlemen on this site. I wonder if perhaps your designated parameters are a little skewed. Post Reply
View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 12:44 AM I think if you genuinely thought that you would've deleted your account instead of writing this. I'm sorry you're not having much luck finding some one who is interested in you. Do you write guys in your country or the U.S.? Because if it's the U.S., they may go unanswered because you're too far away and it doesn't seem at all realistic no matter how good or interesting of a person you may really be. In addition to that, a lot of us are skeptical of people contacting us outside our country because they might be scammers as well. Again, I am sorry though that you're having a hard time and I do hope you find what you need. Post Reply
View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 06:38 AM oh Yay! more accusation..... what was the question? Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 2 Nov, 2013 03:15 PM For one to respond would be at very basic; kind... but if someone doesn't respond, is that rude? While some of us believe some type of acknowledgement of receipt of email is in order, you are free to confirm that from your own profile. Would you consider your time/investment well spent with someone who replies to you everytime, because it's kind, but they don't want to meet you, or whatever... Please don't take this the wrong way, these questions are posted every week.. but still; this isn't high school, if you don't get a response, move on. Even more importantly thought, if you're still hanging in there, you may not want to put everybody in the same group of knuckleheads.... Post Reply
Febby View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 12 Nov, 2013 12:15 AM See, i had past this issue long before i join this site. When a guy being rude to me as not to reply my message, then he's not the one. Move on, and check out another guy. As long as i had done my part as being a good christian woman to be kind to everyone, greet them politely with nothing but sincerity, it's enough for me. I believe the essence of Christian love is when i still can smile and being kind to those unkind. As for they rudeness, it's between them and God. I believe no kindness ever is a waste, it's a bless that my beloved Father counts. As for the guys who choose not to reply because they think i live too far from them, well, then they don't have much faith to believe that God able to make the impossible distance to become possible. My God is too big than any distance in this planet. I also believe, when i lost something/a chance/ an opportunity (in man's eyes) means God has prepared something bigger for me, better for me. So cheer up History!! You'll find the one who deserve you, the one God has prepared for you. The one who won't fear anything, distance and other obstacles. Abraham moved to a nowhere land and let his cousin took the best land ahead, with no fear, because he believe what is consider to be less valuable in man's eyes, is the priceless thing in God's eyes. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 12 Nov, 2013 07:28 AM Amen, Amen Feddy.....wonderfully put!!!!! God bless you sister! Post Reply
123JJJ View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 12 Nov, 2013 09:13 PM I personally prefer a woman not replying than replying saying she is not interested. To me, not replying is better than sending messages back and forth for a couple of weeks only to find out she is not interested but doesn't know how to say it fearing she will hurt my feelings. As far as the distance topic is concerned, it is hard to talk to someone who is hundreds of thousands miles away for months then go meet them face to face only to find out you are not compatible. That's why when I search, I search for ladies in close proximity to where I live because I want to know the woman I will marry well (meeting her many times) before making a marriage commitment, and this can be difficult to do over one fight trip. Post Reply
View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 20 Nov, 2013 10:55 AM My rule of thumb is respond to an actual message but ignore a wink if not interested. New rule, makes the most sense to me. Post Reply
lilstrawboy View Profile History	No real Gentelemen in here Posted : 20 Nov, 2013 06:49 PM If I get a message I reply. If I am not interested I will be as kind as possible. I understand what your saying. I messaged a girl last week, then she viewed my profile but never even opened the message. Does that mean all women here are mean and rude, absolutely not. There are jerks everywhere in the world. As Christ told us, forgive 70 x 7 and turn the other cheek. Post Reply