Author	Thread: Guys can you tell what this actually means
deechristianlady View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 29 Sep, 2013 09:40 PM So I have a friend that is sending mix signals. What does"I don't want to talk to you anymore, stop calling me, I will call you when I want to talk to you" that is what he said and then hung up. 1-He is really mad and needs his space before contacting me. 2-He really doesn't want to talk to me anymore Thanks for clearing this up. Post Reply
View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 29 Sep, 2013 11:12 PM That doesn't really sound like much of a mixed message to me I don't think. I would say it means he feels very strong about not wanting to talk to you, but is still allowing for the off chance that maybe later (probably months) he might want to talk to you. It sounds a lot like my attitude toward this one girl who I asked out and got rejected by. After that, I don't want to see her, know how she's doing, or have any hint of a co-existence with her whatsoever because every time I see her all the unpleasant memories instantly rush in of how stupid and pathetic I was for asking her out and how little I meant to her, how she's not who I thought she was, etc., etc. Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 30 Sep, 2013 12:17 AM I personally don't think he's a person you should call a friend. Friends don't do that. Hunging up a phone on you was very rude of him, that's a major TURN-OFF and therefore deserves to be called into order before he makes a habit of this. Again he misses what friendship is all about "I'll call you when I wanna talk to you" that's not onn Friendship is a two way trafic, you don't only communicate when it suits one part. I agree with Renov that those are not mixed signals, Unless ofcause there's part of the story that you didn't mention. Whichever way dear, wait until he calls (since you'll be communicating on he's terms) and clarify this on the spot that you won't compromise with such threatment, its ok if he doesn't wanna hear from you Though there's a decent way of saying it. My apologizies for interfering with a mans' post. Can't help this softspot I have for weman. Post Reply
deechristianlady View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 30 Sep, 2013 07:29 AM Yes, there is a part of the story that I left out. However, I want to know from guys is saying "I will call you when I want to talk to you" and excuse to get me off the phone. Thanks! Post Reply
View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 30 Sep, 2013 04:59 PM Guys don't do subtlety very well so we pretty much say what we mean and mean what we say. Some guys may act disinterested towards a woman to portray a particular (often false) image, but not openly hostile towards them. On that basis I'd not keep "flogging a dead horse". Post Reply
ChristianArtsy View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 1 Oct, 2013 12:11 PM You say there are parts that you've left out (not asking what.. don't tell), just saying how expect someone to explain something when they don't have the whole story, that being said, just leave him alone, let it go. Post Reply
jctraveler View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 1 Oct, 2013 07:31 PM it's obvious, he doesn't want to talk to you. when he said "i'll call you when i want to talk to you" i'm almost certain he was being sarcastic and has no intention of calling. Post Reply
thewanderer View Profile History	Guys can you tell what this actually means Posted : 6 Oct, 2013 07:26 AM Whether it's 1) or 2), only that guy knows what he meant. But what's important is what you can do with the situation. Go on with your life, or maybe find some new things to do; and let him do his own thing. We might not know the deepness of your friendship or relationship, and what's causing his actions, let the situations be. And be on guard with your heart. Post Reply