Author	Thread: What has attracted you....
CookieOstrich View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 19 Aug, 2013 08:46 AM .....to the profiles of the ladies you have gotten in touch with? I would just like to understand what it was that drew you to read more about the ladies that you got in touch with. Was it how they looked? How they presented their profile? What their profile made you feel? Proximity to your location? Their denomination? Mystery/ Openness? Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 19 Aug, 2013 02:17 PM yup. In that same order. but denomination comes before proximity. Post Reply
CookieOstrich View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 20 Aug, 2013 02:32 AM Thanks CuriousGeorge.... Wonder whether it is the same for everyone else? Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 20 Aug, 2013 08:33 AM I'll put them in order of importance as well. 1. Mystery/ Openness? Literally their openness. I don't want to be with a close-minded person. I absolutely need someone with an open mind who is willing to change to follow the truth that God shows them, and who can stand to think about new ideas that challenge their own. 2. Proximity to your location? Pretty important to me, I wouldn't consider someone who was more than 4 hours away unless I got some pretty big indicators from God. 3. Was it how they looked? Yes, I think mutual attraction is an important part of a healthy marriage. Not that everybody has to be super models, but that each should be confident with their own appearance, and satisfied with each other's appearance. Otherwise, it leaves the door open for insecurity, jealousy, and lust. 4. Their denomination? As long as they believe in God and are searching for the truth, denomination is not important to me. 5. How they presented their profile? I like to see intelligence/logic and humor, but it's not that important. 6. What their profile made you feel? Not at all important. :peace::peace: Post Reply
sisygirl View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 20 Aug, 2013 04:21 PM DHTM Answer number: 1, Mystery/openness 2,Proximity to your location 3,Was it how they looked? Interesting how you've presented those, Get one thinking.... Those were well said friend! CookieOstrich When seeing your post first time, wanted to comment on your photo & smile, but hesitated since its a guys' question/post. Beautiful pic you have there dear, With a genuine beautiful smile. (I love pics & know good ones when I see them) Post Reply
CookieOstrich View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 22 Aug, 2013 11:37 PM :glow: Thanks sisygirl! Post Reply
View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 23 Aug, 2013 08:38 AM What has attracted you.... .....to the profiles of the ladies you have gotten in touch with? Honestly, the only ladies that i have gotten in touch with,contacted me first.... Post Reply
FawLing4U View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 25 Aug, 2013 10:13 AM Well for me, I think there are differences between what makes me view a profile and then what makes me go further and initiate contact. A simple partial view of a profile with a small pic and a short paragraph amidst pages, doesn't allow for too much. Proximity would be top on my list followed by curiosity (maybe an interesting opening, with a clear pic), potential common links / interests. When actually viewing a full profile, honesty, the idea that there could be an equal yoking, multiple pics and finding something that is attractive to me, lead me to ponder and question, which then leads to the initial email. Just my $0.02 Post Reply
View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 2 Sep, 2013 05:57 PM 1- Distance of the person 2- Pictures/looks (which include height, body shape, tan, long hair, ...) 3- If they include God in their profile or not, either mentioning Him, or if their lives evolve around Him (which I prefer) 4- Similarities in Hobbies or music or other things... Post Reply
View Profile History	What has attracted you.... Posted : 5 Sep, 2013 07:40 PM I have really only met someone from this site offline. A different story for a different time, anyways I look for how they present their profile and personality. Post Reply