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ChristianArtsy

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What makes a woman
Posted : 6 Aug, 2013 10:43 AM

.. approachable?

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Posted : 6 Aug, 2013 09:10 PM

if i knew the answer to this, i would not be here :D

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Posted : 6 Aug, 2013 10:36 PM

I'll echo wykd's comment but only add one thought... that assuming I were a guy, (not a serial dater or one playing the odds by hitting on everyone, just a regular Joe) who happens to see a woman's profile, and in all that was there I thought to myself "man she's got it all!" and I wish I could somehow meet that gal... the one thing left to get past is my own doubt of "if she's already interested in someone" or "why in the world would a gal like her want to have anything to do with me..." (and the list could go on...)

So I'd think, atleast for me, the woman's being approachable is more my own problem than yours (hypothetically of course, lol) Of course a woman can help a fella along if she senses the struggle for the guy and she happens to be interested in him too, but hey... you can lead a horse to water but ya can't make him drink! So ole cowboy Joe needs to buck up and takes the reigns! Yippie Ki yayyy



btw enjoyed reading your profile and you seem to be a very approachable and godly woman:angel:

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Posted : 7 Aug, 2013 04:20 AM

Personally I find all women approachable. The question for me is do I want to approach them or not. The other day I approached these two beautiful young ladies who in the past I would have been terrified to do so.



Being approachable and able to approach really comes down to one thing, self security.



The lack of the fear of rejection and security that comes with it enables one to approach and persue a woman. The security that a woman emits attracts a man who is secure.



My encouragement is know ones self first before knowing another.



One day I decided to do something about my insecurities. I decided to meet them head on. I decided to come out of my shell and approach women and take the fear and rejection head long.



The first time I did so my heart was racing but after I said within my self that was not so bad. We who have experienced rejection growing up are sensitive to rejection and have built walls of security. Some of those walls prevent us from having the very thing we desire, a mate.



In the love of God He enables us to grow out of the old and live in the new life of being a child of the King. With that comes a new life and security not based in self but based in God.

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ChristianArtsy

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Posted : 7 Aug, 2013 07:07 AM

@ One_Sojourner, thank you for your compliment as well as witty observations. It is true women can "sense" struggle... lol.

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Posted : 7 Aug, 2013 08:08 AM

idk, maybe i ugly?

appears everytime i even look at a female,

they grab the purse all up close,

whip out the cellphone,

start looking around for some messiah?

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 12:09 PM

@ LetThisMind2 - Hasn't this woman of God expressly asked you not to comment in her posts? Yet, you show NO respect for her wishes. Do you think that is honoring to her or any of the other women here?

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 01:40 PM

These are public forums, enough said.

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 02:17 PM

So then, it is alright to harass a woman against her wishes as long as it's done on a "public forum" ?

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 02:55 PM

How is what I posted here harrasment?

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Posted : 10 Aug, 2013 03:03 PM

Actually IWalkAlone , You are showing disrespect by bringing another issue into her thread. Why make her thread your battle ground?

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