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Why do men hit on a woman close to their partner?
Posted : 29 Jul, 2013 05:42 AM

The worst thing a man can ever do to his partner in my opinion is hitting on someone close to her. Be it a sister, colleague, friend, neighbour, housemate; it hurts as hell if a man youre intimate with makes a move on someone close to you. Why do men do that?

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Why do men hit on a woman close to their partner?
Posted : 29 Jul, 2013 06:03 AM

It might not be a concious thing he is doing. It might only feel like that to you and not him. It is good if you both talk about it and find understanding in the situation else it will cause the break down in trust.



Remember some men are charming and this might be why you fell for him in the first place. If you try to remove his charm then you are only hurting your self in the process. By asking him to be something he is not you are expressing rejection of him.



The next time this happens this is what you say to the woman. Look at my man isnt he so charming? Then laugh with pleasure. Then look him in the eye and thank him for being so charming because that is one reason you respect him so much.



By showing your man your confidence and trust through respect he will live up to your respect, promise.

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Why do men hit on a woman close to their partner?
Posted : 29 Jul, 2013 10:42 AM

for the same reasons women do the same thing....

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Why do men hit on a woman close to their partner?
Posted : 31 Jul, 2013 11:16 AM

Is it really 'hitting on them' or just trying to ingratiate ourselves with the people important to you? After all, we know that if we don't have your friends' approval then the relationship will be soured somewhat.

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Posted : 31 Jul, 2013 02:00 PM

not sure this is a man only issue its hurts irregardless who you are and with whomever, betrayal of this sort is the very worst pain any one can inflict on another human being in my opinion, even God understood how painful it was that apart from death of a spouse its the only other reason that divorce is allowed

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