It had nothing to do with the abuse or drama. In his pride he challenged one of us to send it so as God does with the pride of us I gave it to him the destruction.
Hell and destruction is self appointed and God only give us the desires of our hearts as did I with him. He asked to be rejected so rejected he was.
Their was nothing emotional in it for me. Allow me to rephrase that their was no negative emotional thoughts toward sand. It is great when we have a firm foundatiion to bring our thoughts into captivity and in turn receive a table of Gods blessings to partake of.
As Jesus said if you knew who you spoke I would have given you living water that you never thirst again. Jesus gives me living water and my source of love and security comes from Him alone. Not that I dont enjoy being loved and respected by others but in Christ we are secure and strong.
This enables,,,,,did you know that God is the biggest enabeler? Tell that to the psycology doctors. God the biggest enabeler enables me to be a giver ant not a taker in this world.
Apart from Him I am selfish and abbusive. I am apart from Him part of antichrist. If and when we are not extending forgiveness, grace, mercy, love and so on we are members of antichrist and not christ.
Because antichrist has come to kill and destroy but Christ has come to give life and more abundant life indeed.
Matthew 5:38-48 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:
But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.
And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloke also.
And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain.
Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.
Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?
And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?
Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
Luke 6:33 And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? for sinners also do even the same.
Luke 6:34-37 And if ye lend to them of whom ye hope to receive, what thank have ye? for sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again.
But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend, hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the Highest: for he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.
Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.
Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
Luke 6:41-46 And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but perceivest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Either how canst thou say to thy brother, Brother, let me pull out the mote that is in thine eye, when thou thyself beholdest not the beam that is in thine own eye? Thou hypocrite, cast out first the beam out of thine own eye, and then shalt thou see clearly to pull out the mote that is in thy brother's eye.
For a good tree bringeth not forth corrupt fruit; neither doth a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit.
For every tree is known by his own fruit. For of thorns men do not gather figs, nor of a bramble bush gather they grapes.
A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh.
And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?
Luke 6:47-49 Whosoever cometh to me, and heareth my sayings, and doeth them, I will shew you to whom he is like:
He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock.
But he that heareth, and doeth not, is like a man that without a foundation built an house upon the earth; against which the stream did beat vehemently, and immediately it fell; and the ruin of that house was great.
I said it before friend with a genuine attitude, (not influenced by anger or emotions)
I'll say it again with an even more genuine attitude than ever before.
WELLDONE DEAR!
That was done so well, no one else would have done it so better than you did.
Such collomn (report an abusive member) is meant for such members.
What makes this even more interesting, is that SandmanHollywood knew he's portion hense he asked for it,
And such he received with much more than he was asking for,
Humiliation was he's bonus.
He humiliated himself in lowful manner.....
Oh I wish he was put to he's place long before he asked for it.
This is the worst Christian dating site i've ever partaked in, there's so much negative energies & opposition here (thank God for few wonderful fellows) which you happen to be one of them. For that reason I appreciate your humbleness, respect, the balance you bring back in the forum & time taken in writting back to me (though I really prefere your long long massages, since there's more to learn, than the short ones when I feel compromised of information that I would have pondered upon if only you were as expressive as i've known you to be.)
You too much of a grown up,
You wouldn't have reported this abuse out of emotions,
You wouldn't have reported at all if he didn't ask,
I'm certainly glad he did, wish he asked from the first day.
I recall asking you not to be diluted or compromised by the energies here, be rooted in your values since you're mostly attacked.
Now can I manipulate this forum & kindly ask you to go back to the recent question I asked you & DontHitThatMark, (about humans' natural respond to resistance when something's brought forth) still feel you had much to say to me, if only you wen't distrusted.
Write back whenever you have time please,
I know we have other responsibilities to give put our minds at.
Why is human nature most likely to respond to positivity with an energy of resistance/doubtfullness?
This question was trigured by a lot of incidents qoating from the bible & our day to day respond to things, since i've started to observe this.
DontHitThatMark has shared he's thought towords is (which was very interesting) though I need your openion too, weither you'll be saying similar from what he said, or you'll express your brand new thoughts.
Let's look at few passages from the bible:
Sarah our very mother of faith, was the first to manifest this... When Abraham was told by angels that Sarah was gonna concieve a son, she laughed as she overheard their conversation. (In my little mind, her laughter was a sign of doubtfullness) though with time she came around the idea, in this regard i'm more keen on her first respond.
Let's look at Moses:
He decided to suffer for salvation's sake than enjoying pleasures of Egypt,
Though when sent by God back to Egypt for the deliverance of the children of Israel, it was now a different case. He carried on about being unable to express himself too well verbally & qoating lots of other excuses.
Likewise with Jeremiah when called by God.
He argued about being too younger to testify & prophecy, untill God's tone was a little harder on him, he then started to coperate.
One last more from the bible.
Ester when she was the only hope of saving Jews, she had lots of excuses to Mordacai
Until she was reminded that it was for such reason that she was chosen as a queen.
Mordacai took it as far as telling her that she must not think that she's be safe just cause she's currently in the palace, when Jews are killed she'll be killed too.
What i've observed from the above qoated scriptures is that, to all these people God had good plans as always,
Plans to deliver, to bless, to bring forth good news, to warn etc BUT the vessels chosen to bring these things to reality had to resist first, all of them with many more to qoate. I wondered why....?
I stated observing people around me, they too behaved likewise. Example:
When telling someone about employment. First question is "what if they don't take me?
When one's having a busuness idea, what if it fails? First respond to the idea
I divorced lady when pursued by a guy seeking a relationship with her,
First respond is always resistance. Was married before it didn't work, therefore......
People may come around eventually, though the very first respond is resistance.
With my very own personal incidents to qoate but I won't say in details,
Potential relationships that I turned down.
Marriege proposals that I didn't wanna even consider due to my past.
Business presentations that I missed intentionally...
The list is endless but I know that you do get the picture now.
Why is human nature most likely to respond to positivity with an energy of resistance/doubtfullness? What could be influencing this behavior, especially as the first respond?
Why is human nature most likely to respond to positivity with an energy of resistance/doubtfullness?
This question was trigured by a lot of incidents qoating from the bible & our day to day respond to things, since i've started to observe this.
DontHitThatMark has shared he's thought towords is (which was very interesting) though I need your openion too, weither you'll be saying similar from what he said, or you'll express your brand new thoughts.
Let's look at few passages from the bible:
Sarah our very mother of faith, was the first to manifest this... When Abraham was told by angels that Sarah was gonna concieve a son, she laughed as she overheard their conversation. (In my little mind, her laughter was a sign of doubtfullness) though with time she came around the idea, in this regard i'm more keen on her first respond.
Let's look at Moses:
He decided to suffer for salvation's sake than enjoying pleasures of Egypt,
Though when sent by God back to Egypt for the deliverance of the children of Israel, it was now a different case. He carried on about being unable to express himself too well verbally & qoating lots of other excuses.
Likewise with Jeremiah when called by God.
He argued about being too younger to testify & prophecy, untill God's tone was a little harder on him, he then started to coperate.
One last more from the bible.
Ester when she was the only hope of saving Jews, she had lots of excuses to Mordacai
Until she was reminded that it was for such reason that she was chosen as a queen.
Mordacai took it as far as telling her that she must not think that she's be safe just cause she's currently in the palace, when Jews are killed she'll be killed too.
What i've observed from the above qoated scriptures is that, to all these people God had good plans as always,
Plans to deliver, to bless, to bring forth good news, to warn etc BUT the vessels chosen to bring these things to reality had to resist first, all of them with many more to qoate. I wondered why....?
I stated observing people around me, they too behaved likewise. Example:
When telling someone about employment. First question is "what if they don't take me?
When one's having a busuness idea, what if it fails? First respond to the idea
I divorced lady when pursued by a guy seeking a relationship with her,
First respond is always resistance. Was married before it didn't work, therefore......
People may come around eventually, though the very first respond is resistance.
With my very own personal incidents to qoate but I won't say in details,
Potential relationships that I turned down.
Marriege proposals that I didn't wanna even consider due to my past.
Business presentations that I missed intentionally...
The list is endless but I know that you do get the picture now.
Why is human nature most likely to respond to positivity with an energy of resistance/doubtfullness? What could be influencing this behavior, especially as the first respond?
