Author	Thread: Would you date a woman in a wheelchair?
RollingButLoving View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 30 Jun, 2013 10:22 PM Hey guys, I was just wondering if being in a wheelchair is a dealbreaker? I have had a few friends with whom I would like to be more than friends, but it seems like this darn chair sometimes makes me undateable :/ My chair is a part of who I've been for more than 10 years, and I wouldn't change it, but it seems like a downside when it comes to meeting people :/ So I guess my question is, would you date a girl in a wheelchair? What about friendship? Thank you so much for reading this and your input :) Post Reply
Rightous777 View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 30 Jun, 2013 11:40 PM First of all being in a wheelchair shouldn't be a dealbreaker or any other physical concern for that matter? However, the bible does teach that man looks outwardly. However, there is still hope. It will just take time, with God nothing is impossible! Besides those other friendships you had that didn't work out to be more, were just not meant to be.Besides you shouldnt just want someone but thee one!God causes all things to work together for good for those who are called according to his purpose. Although,I dont know your exact situation I 've had plenty of challenges to overcome as well. What I ve learned is that true genuine people will Love you for who you are and not based on anything else. we both probably have simarities and differences but regardless it shouldn't change anything. We all are given strengths and weakness in order to use are strengths to Honor God and are weaknesses to Glorify God as we Surrender and rely upon him. From what little I know about you, your very dateable!!! Lets recap.... Your a Godly woman, your Very beautiful, despite your circumstance you move forward with Joy, your in college, ect. Things happen life happens,but it shouldn't affect the way people view you. Like I mentioned earlier the above traits are what I see when I view you. People are too superficial and do not focus on what should matter most. We profess to be christians!!! What does that mean.... Christ like. Well then if God looks inwardly and as christians we strive to be like Christ, then we should also. Besides all relationships have challenges, conditions, or situations that people have to work through together. Regardless of Physical,Emotional, Spiritual,Financial, ect. What should matter most is the Love they have for God and eachother. To think otherwise would make that person a fool! Therefore, I suggest you first get married to Christ and make him the Love of your life if he isnt all ready and everything else will fall into place. Here is the catch... In God timing not ours!!!! Seek ye first the Kingdom and all these things will be added unto you.In my experience if God isnt first in your life, you wont recieve the desires of your Heart. Also recieving the desires of your heart is conditional... Based on Gods plan and purpose for your life because put simply regardless of what you desire if its not Gods will or correct timing you will either not recieve it or it may be delayed until your ready for it. God Bless, ; ) Rightous777 Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 1 Jul, 2013 04:28 AM Its not you or your chair that is a issue it is the majority of us guys that are the issue. We are generally self centered and most guys are not care takers. I know many men will be offened by this but it is true that most guys your age dont have the maturity to love and care for a young woman like you. Our motives at this age are not one of honor. God is preparing a Godly man for you like Johny ericson. I am sure she is a role modle of yours and God has given to her a rare man to love and care for her. It is only recently that I as a man have grown up and learned to look at a woman for who she is and not for other reasons in a selfish manner. To fulfill the flesh. What a blessing to have learned this because I love, loving my woman. You too when you wait on the Lord will find a man who will lead you in life as your partner and love you unconditionally. That is the nature of the God we serve. To give good gifts to His children and you are a good gift that needs a good man to be joined with that you two can serve a good God together. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 1 Jul, 2013 11:01 AM would you date a girl in a wheelchair? only if the wheelchair was wide enough for us to both fit in it,if it is one of those lil skinny racer chairs? i would have to pass.... as far as dating a girl with challenges? we all challenged in one way or another,i am not afraid..... What about friendship? much like dating ,it depends if i like You and Your attitude,as i am dating/hanging out with YOU, not the chair... Post Reply
deliverence View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 1 Jul, 2013 08:45 PM Not a deal breaker. When someone falls in love, they fall in love with everything about that person...(their personality, character, eyes, nose, lips, smile even their disproportionate ears if be. As a believer, you should not want to be with a (shallow) guy that is going to pass you by, because of a chair with wheels. A true man of God would see the real you, and take the time to court you if he felt a spark of interest. So in that respect you have already weeded out the Shallow Hals. Happy sailing! Post Reply
JasonRocker View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 1 Jul, 2013 11:28 PM The fact your asking this question makes me sad. If people cant like you for who you are then there not worth worrying about. Society now a days.... telling everyone you have to be legit perfect. To me, asking about dating a girl in a wheelchair is like asking would you date someone with braces. It shouldn't matter, cause there not dating the wheelchair, there dating you. Would I personally date someone in a wheelchair? Sure, why not? Post Reply
antlew View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 2 Jul, 2013 09:38 AM Honestly, to me it depends on how the lady viewed herself in the chair. It would be hard for me to date a lady in a chair that is always down and negative about her situation; instead of being upbeat, positive, and looking at the blessings in her life. If she is like this the chair would not be a deal breaker. Post Reply
View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 6 Jul, 2013 09:52 AM Hi there,no,it shouldn't matter,in fact,I feel that it's an honor to date a woman in a wheelchair! :) A few months ago,I had met a girl who had visited my church for a special service for a local organisation that's for teachers,may I say,that she's a very lovely lady.i also founded out that the president of the organisation was her mother. I wanted to help her to get in the her car,but this guy had come out of nowhere and had helped her and felt bad cause I thought that it was her boyfriend ( it later turned out to be her brother and his car. Who would've thought! :goofball:) I wanted to get to know her better,but she has said that she will be visiting back again someday for she liked the service. Later on,I had asked a lady who had talked to her before she had left that same Sunday two weeks later if she knows her,and the lady told me that the Bishop had given her the directions in order to know where to go for the churches' address. She also said that sadly,she has some kinda muscle condition that makes her feel uncomfortable to sit in one spot for too long. Sadly,since I didn't have the courage to ask her for the girls' address,I haven't seen here since,but I know that if it's Gods' will for me to meet her again,I'm not worried about it at all. Love is not about what someone has or what they do,but rather who they are that does! in other words,no mountain is not too high,no valley isn't too wide or no ocean is too deep to stop someone fro loving the other person! if you can't love someone in the bad and serious times,how on earth can you love someone in the good times as well? You are a very beautiful and special person,the Lord will bring the right gentleman to you in time! You're blessed! :applause: Post Reply
RollingButLoving View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 7 Jul, 2013 09:45 PM Thank you so much for the responses! All of you are so nice! Have a blessed week :) Post Reply
jimmypeters27 View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 25 Oct, 2013 04:57 PM A woman who fears God is worth more than all the money in the world. A genuine man of God is interested in a woman who Fears God hates sin and will help his family know Jesus better and make heaven. Post Reply
suresh85 View Profile History	Would you date a woman in a wheelchair? Posted : 18 Nov, 2013 09:16 PM Hi, I am suresh I am affected by polio when I am around 2 year old, so my left leg is not functional and my right 80% is ok. but through god I work in software field now, I walk in clutch. Yes I have tried few girls, some are half interested first they are ok later they turn down, other use to tell some nonsense reason to avoid. But what I know is one day god will provide my partner if he is in plan, apart from that I am blessed by god in all the things. Take courage world see different but god see us beautiful child :) God Bless u richly Love of christ, Suresh Post Reply

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