Author	Thread: What are you looking for?
ephphatha View Profile History	What are you looking for? Posted : 20 Jun, 2013 11:18 PM Why do so many guys view your profile and keep on surfing? What things do you want to know about from our profiles? Have you just read so many of them that they are all starting to sound alike? What gets you to take the book off the shelf and open the cover? Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you looking for? Posted : 24 Jun, 2013 10:46 AM this topic that blow my mind. We are guys,we are looking for, 1. something to eat.... 2. somewhere to sleep.... what are You Ladies looking for? Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you looking for? Posted : 26 Jun, 2013 02:51 PM I'll keep it simple. An average normal GUY is just looking for a pretty face to stare at. A true MAN is looking for something else entirely........... :devil: Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you looking for? Posted : 26 Jun, 2013 04:19 PM I can not speak for other men but for me I really didnt know what to look for in a woman until God revealed to me what I should look for. What I now know is not taught by the world and not taught in the christian circles I encounter even the radio. With the greats like Dobson and such. With truths so simple I dont know how I missed then and others miss them also especially teachers and preachers of the word. The why and the who behind what God tells us is so important but truly missed. Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you looking for? Posted : 29 Jun, 2013 07:19 PM Honestly, I have read so many profiles that my vision is going bad! LOL I have messaged probably at least 100 different women. More than half of them never even opened my message! The ones who did answer were mostly uninterested, cool, unfriendly, cynical, or busy with others. I did have great conversations with a number of women. They were available, friendly, kind, interested, and made me feel good. But after a couple of months of talking eventually either she or I decided that we are not good for each other. So, I am still searching. This searching for my other half is getting super boring, tiring, and most of all EXHAUSTING. Often I see a pretty face. I click on it and read the profile. And I don't write a message. I don't even click on WINK. You may be asking me, "Why? Don't you want to find out if she is interested?" Nah, I am tired. I have enough energy to click on someone's profile, but I am tired of writing. I used to write a nice personalized message to each person. Not anymore. I have even thought about deleting my profile, but I don't want to disassociate myself from my postings. Whatever happens happens. Looking at your first profile photo, I would say that you haven't slept well. Looks like you are being careful or cautious. On your second picture, even though you're smiling, your eyes reflect a shade of sadness. If you're a woman, your photo is everything. Put the best shot on your profile, because it will determine everything. Yes, there are people who say that "real men" look what's on the inside and don't care about the outside. None of that is true! All men are VERY concerned about what you look on the outside. Women who look pretty get tons of emails regardless of what they say on their profiles! They can say stupid things or smart things or really nothing at all, yet they will get tons of emails! Try it. Create a new profile. Look straight into the camera. Smile. Look genuinely happy. Over a period of next few weeks take hundreds of photos of you and pick the 3 best ones. ALSO, ask someone to take photos of you while you're doing your favorite things. You should look happy and enjoying life. I am sorry if all this sounds like superficiality, but this dating game is just sales and marketing. That's all. What do I look for in a potential friend? Initially, I am just looking for someone who is kind and friendly. Someone who is available. Someone who agrees with me and admires me. Someone who needs me. If it sounds like a woman is too independent, then I don't feel attracted. Maybe that's just me. I don't know. Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you looking for? Posted : 29 Jun, 2013 07:28 PM By the way, there is nothing wrong with your outward appearance. You can look great. Just smile and while you're shooting the photos, think of a very funny joke! :) Best wishes....................................! Post Reply
View Profile History	What are you looking for? Posted : 15 Jul, 2013 12:04 PM Pretty Face and Body won't last forever. but most of us LADIES are also attracted to looks Post Reply