Author	Thread: time and space
CMae View Profile History	time and space Posted : 23 Mar, 2013 10:13 AM "If it both suites us to just give a bit of time and space hopefully time will make us both see clearly".. that's what my guy said but i really dont get it, does it mean i should leave him alone or what because i cant just do that :prayingf: or am i over reacting? haha Post Reply
View Profile History	time and space Posted : 23 Mar, 2013 10:36 AM What he is telling you is that he really does not know what he wants in your relationship as yet. It could be possible that you are in a more commited position than he is. This makes it difficult for you. I would ask him how much time and space he needs. If it is reasonable then let him know that when the time is up that you expect him to have greater clarification to where he is in your relationship. You do NOT want to be part of a relationship where he is not commited as you are. Relationship has to have harmony and one is in another place then harmony is disturbed and you become frustrated. It is possible that he really does not know how to lead and consider your feelings. If this is so then you really need to find a guy who can consider you. Post Reply
CMae View Profile History	time and space Posted : 23 Mar, 2013 10:50 AM we're not really in a relationship, it's like ..i told him the same thing 2 years ago because i need to focus on my studies--so he gave me space and time without asking for its duration.. and this time he's asking the same thing because he want to sort things out and he knows what he really want... Post Reply
View Profile History	time and space Posted : 24 Mar, 2013 08:36 AM sounds more like you are just using each other till something better comes along(no commitment on either side).After 2 years you should know this guy pretty well!By now you 2 should have laid expectations on the line with each other and commit to something or move on.If there is no relationship why would he have to ask for space and why would you be uncertain about that?I don't think there is much real communication going on here. Post Reply
View Profile History	time and space Posted : 24 Mar, 2013 08:38 AM sounds more like you are just using each other till something better comes along(no commitment on either side).After 2 years you should know this guy pretty well!By now you 2 should have laid expectations on the line with each other and commit to something or move on.If there is no relationship why would he have to ask for space and why would you be uncertain about that?I don't think there is much real communication going on here. Post Reply
View Profile History	time and space Posted : 24 Mar, 2013 10:14 AM Right on Mike. Post Reply
CMae View Profile History	time and space Posted : 25 Mar, 2013 07:50 AM geee when will i learn lol :toomuch: Post Reply
View Profile History	time and space Posted : 26 Mar, 2013 04:15 AM We care about you young Lady. Post Reply
CMae View Profile History	time and space Posted : 31 Mar, 2013 06:11 AM thank you :) Post Reply