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Admin	oh I got a question :P Posted : 17 Mar, 2013 09:50 PM Why does it always seem that men always want children? I know I cant be the only person that doesnt want any right? Dont get me wrong I do not hate them, I just dont want any. Anyways please let me know. I hope its not the answer to keep you line going. ^^' I have heard that one enough. Our "bloodline" is not that important. :P Post Reply
View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 18 Mar, 2013 12:43 AM Many say they do want children because they know that a great many women want children and that the chances of the others showing interest in him, if he said no, would dramatically decrease. In short, many say it to deceive others into taking interest in them. Post Reply
View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 18 Mar, 2013 04:13 AM Well first of all children are a heritence from the Lord. They are referred to as arrows in the hand of a mighty man. Children are extentions of a husband and wife becoming one flesh. The genetic makeup to see what these little ones will turn out like is like christmas every day. Their is anticipation of guiding them the love they give us and receive from us. Their is also as Godly men and women raising up the next generation to know and love God. The colaboration between husband and wife to raise up children is work and requires sacrifice. This will either build a stronger relationship or divide a couple. Biologically God has given both men and women the drive to reproduce on a cellular level. Sometime the drive is stronger. Sometimes it is weak. Do not disscount the reality that one day you too will have a strong drive to want to reproduce and bear children. A woman is a gloirious vessel from God with much love and emotions and as a man giving my lady children that she can express all of who she is is my loving and caring for her. Having raised a beautiful mature strong woman I would definitly want to do it again but also I want to have a son to raise and become a real man of God. I have tried to come along side other young men but their is something different about my own boy with no interference. My greatest desire is to be a husband and a father and raise a family. My ex has stolen this from me. God tells us He will restore the years the locust have eaten. This I know and I am in process of recieving this promise from a loving God. The final reason to wanting children is my earthly dad is not a man of honor and did not set a example of who God is. I want to have the oppertunity to be the man. My daughter has great respect for me. This is not because I have ever demanded it like my earthly father. It is because I earned it in her eyes. We men need respect and having a wife and children who respect me makes me the riches man on the face of the planet. Honer and respect requires sacrifice and we men are called to sacrifice. No greater ones to sacrifice for then our wives and children, right? Be blessed in you waiting in Christ Jesus, Michael Post Reply
View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 18 Mar, 2013 09:57 AM The reason that I say that I want children is because very many if not most Women already have children, and so I am saying that it is okay if the Lady does have children. I figure that other Men on any such dating site would say the same thing based on a possible female mate already having children - rather then saying it in expecting the Lady to make a baby. From a male perspective then I believe we are just trying to be open to the usual reality of children by the Ladies. It is not asking the Lady to get pregnant. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 18 Mar, 2013 11:52 PM I agree with Michael,it is Godly to have children. And it was God's desire for His creation to fill the earth. And to bring up children in love and fear of God is the most fulfilling thing in a relationship. It is right for men and women to want children. However,there are those who feel they wouldn't want to have children and we cannot judge them. Post Reply
View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 20 Mar, 2013 06:56 AM Glad to see that from both directions on this. It helps. Thank you all for responding. ^-^ ! Post Reply
TravisjustTravis View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 22 Mar, 2013 02:23 PM GOD did say that we were to be fruitiful and multiply (and I think that basicly means to spread the image of GOD) Back in the day, jewish culture taught that you kind of followed in the footsteps of your parents. Some people do not want children because of the "problems" associated with a kid. Also there is that whole thing about GOD the FATHER, GOD the SUN, and GOD the HOLY SPIRIT being representive of the mom, dad, and child/children. But even if you do not want to have or can not have children that are biologicaly related to you, you can adopt. Sometimes this is not practical for a married couple, in which case I would recomend involving yourself in helping to introduce children to the LORD! Post Reply
View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 24 Mar, 2013 07:20 PM I would like to add something. I think children are a gift from God but God has also ordain sex for pleasure as well. I think Christians sometimes miss this as well (Song of Songs). Some people don't change their mind about having kids. Some ultimately don't have kids and we shouldn't regard them as selfish either. Post Reply
View Profile History	oh I got a question :P Posted : 24 Mar, 2013 07:25 PM I would like to follow up with the selfish comment. I have known many people and have heard when a married couples doesn't want kids... they are regard as selfish and uncaring. This is further from the truth. They can find fulfillment in other ways such as through their careers, hobbies and traveling. Post Reply