Author	Thread: Age
Admin	Age Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 04:05 PM I am a 46 year old woman and am wondering why some of the men my own age have posted that they are interested in women from 18-40? The thought process of a GIRL 18 or even women in their 20's is not even close to women my age. What would men think if I posted that I was interested in boy's 18-40? I have been curious about this, thanks for any replies. By the way, looking at the age preference is one of the first things I look at and if I see an older man want a young girl, I pass him by. Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	Age Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 04:16 PM Most guys who are older and willing to have a relationship (or sexual partner) who is that much younger probably don't care what you think. That said, if you were like those men, you probably wouldn't care what older men thought. I would probably think you were looking for sex if you were willing to go out with a guy who was 18. That said, go on passing by those guys, because I agree with your judgment. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 08:10 PM I'd probably think that you felt that you'd get along more easily with a younger guy (as opposed to a necessarily much younger guy, if the age bracket was 18-20). Any reasoning behind that would not be for me to explain. A woman might lean toward a younger guy for mutual interest in spending time out of the house, or for fertility issues (no offence meant) - or for anything else marriage related. But profile description aside, there'd be no way for me to know until I asked, and started listening. That said, I could just pass by for someone about my age, and not let it concern me at all :D. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 10:56 PM Perhaps they're less set in their ways, or carry less baggage? Most girls of that age aren't divorced or have kids already... Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	Age Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 11:30 PM Just go by what you prefer and not what other people prefer. I think everyone goes by what makes them comfortable.If a man knows he cannot be comfortable with a woman his age,why should he go for one? I would advice you to be the same,just pass by those who have put age preference which doesn't fit you. There are so many guys who are interested in women who are over 45 go for them and don't even waste your time thinking about the rest. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age Posted : 13 Mar, 2013 04:02 AM Maturity is the issue. Many individuals might be mature age wise but not mature spiritually and emotionally. I personally have found that many mature women age wise are not capable to follow a man. Due to whatever reasons. I find them having a form of godliness but denying the power of God in their life. Needing controll out of deep fear. Churchy women without true godliness. These women are set in their ways and more prevelent in the US than any other country. So maybe it has nothing to do with age alone. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age Posted : 13 Mar, 2013 11:39 AM "if I see an older man want a young girl, I pass him by." Unfortunately that kind of attitude is what keeps people single, and ultimately, embittered. As you stated, the guy was in his forties and was willing to look for women up to near that age, so what's the problem? It's not like he only wants a teenager... Maybe I'd prefer an 18yr old - she'll keep her physical beauty that much longer, probably still a virgin, got no kids and never been married and divorced. All legitimate reasons in themselves. But the reality is I think differently to a teenager because I've been there already and have the benefit of experience (not neccessarily wisdom!) and our interests and ambitions for life probably won't align. Even so, I'll take a chance with girls of most ages below, beside or beyond my age - to a point - because I'm more bothered about compatibility than a number. You may never be somebody's first choice, but if they love you and are faithful to you and the Lord, what does that matter? Don't let your ego make something already difficult into the impossible. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age Posted : 14 Mar, 2013 02:22 AM While I can't answer for other men, I can say that some like myself prefer women our own age...more in common and such. To each his or her own. Oddly enough, the majority of attention I receive on this site is from much younger women. I haven't looked...perhaps there just aren't many men their age or in their area on this site. Perhaps it's the same for some of the men. It is nice that the site options allow me to state my preference & limit contact to those who are in the age range I'm interested. Hope that helps. Post Reply
View Profile History	Age Posted : 14 Mar, 2013 08:55 PM I tend to be analytically minded and the answer's I have received have been very interesting and surprising to me. Thank you all for your response's. Post Reply