Author	Thread: are girls naive?
Elianne777 View Profile History	are girls naive? Posted : 16 Feb, 2013 03:56 PM I see alot of guys telling the things a girl wanna hear, and not telling who they really are. Why? You do also know that it won't work, don't you? Are girls maybe to picky, and that some guys want to be picked up out of the bunch? Are girls naive, and waiting on a prince charming that never comes? Seriously, sometimes I get the feeling that the "right person for me" is hit by a bus or something... Post Reply
View Profile History	are girls naive? Posted : 17 Feb, 2013 05:27 AM You are young and have plenty of time. Think of those here who out of impatience choose the wrong partner for them and suffered big time for it. Even since my divorce I have had to wait 7 years to finally meet a woman who I can connect with on a spiritual and emotional level. Even now we are still waiting after 2 years for a approval of her visa to become married. No one likes waiting "but God" does great things in our lives if we surrender to His time line and wait on Him. You will not be sorry for patiently waiting on God and His will for your life according to His timeing for you, because He loves you dearly. He wants the best for you. Now guys telling what you want to hear are just afraid of rejection or plain manipulators trying to take advantage of you and discard you. Dont believe a guy telling you he loves you let him show it by protecting you and honoring your body. Let him lead you in being honest with you and prove his commitment to you if he is over time. Time reveals all but patience is needed for time. Be patient young lady and you will be blessed. Post Reply
CuriousGeorge View Profile History	are girls naive? Posted : 17 Feb, 2013 10:47 AM " Even now we are still waiting after 2 years for a approval of her visa to become married. " waiting 2 years for visa approval? why not go meet her, get married, then come back to the US? Post Reply
View Profile History	are girls naive? Posted : 17 Feb, 2013 01:00 PM If you have questions that are not related to this thread you are welcome to ask me elsewhere but I am not going to hijack this sweet young ladies thread, are you? Post Reply
mithridates View Profile History	are girls naive? Posted : 21 Feb, 2013 11:06 PM I think people in general are naive, and I'm no exception. The only relevant difference is that some people are self-aware enough to realize it and other aren't. It's not a horrible trait, there's a a certain beauty and innocence to it, but it can get you into trouble quickly if you don't control it. Either that, or young people in general are naive. I don't exactly socialize with a whole lot of older people. Post Reply
YourSong View Profile History	are girls naive? Posted : 24 Feb, 2013 08:32 PM to letthismind2, I appreciate your advice regarding waiting and choosing a mate. I also agree and seconded with curiousGeorge question, "If you find this girl as really the one woman you've waited for why not take the risk to be with her, marry her and pick her up from where she is? Isn't she worth it and her parents worthy of your thank you for keeping such a girl like her only just to be given to you? I think this question would raise curiosity to all the girls out there who value their parents. ...you can reply privately tho... Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	are girls naive? Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 04:38 PM Because a lot of guys are more interested in finding sex, so they lie. Also, there are 7 billion people in the world, expect it to take a while to find one of the ones that is good for you. Though here is a tip: the more you figure out who you are, the more you can figure out what kind of guy you need. If you have interests that are different from most people, that can help you find guys that are interested in that as well. I'm not saying you can base a whole relationship together out of both people liking photography, but it could certainly help. Post Reply