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Posted : 10 Jan, 2013 07:23 AM

why are some men not true to what they say?

is it naivete for a woman to jz hold on to what they say because she does not know he's a player....?

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2013 01:37 PM

Everyone has a motive, a plan they're working towards. What they tell you that plan is isn't necessarily true - and plenty will manipulate others to achieve it. How many women have been charmed into bed by promises and flattery only for it to evaporate once they've given in to persuasion...

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Posted : 10 Jan, 2013 09:31 PM

whatever his motives are...such act of antipathy is so unbecoming for the one claiming to be a christian...

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Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 03:37 AM

Some people are only christians by the word of mouth not in their hearts.

I think the fear of God is what can make someone true and honest in all that they do or say.

Especially in these dating sites many people tell alot of lies and its wrong coz this is a dating site based on pure christianity and we should respect that.

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Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 07:10 AM

Such people will tell you whatever they think you want to hear, if it furthers their purposes. And there's nothing too sacred for them to claim either.

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2013 02:20 AM

sad to say that even in a christian site, they creep in as wolf in sheep's clothing. i jz wish all gals here are wise enough to know their schemes..

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Posted : 13 Jan, 2013 04:33 AM

Sister,



Allow us to give these individuals the benifit of the doubt. They may be well meaning sincere individuals with a faith in God.



But........They may lack the maturity for a commited relationship just like many women here.



From experience that even though we are made new positionally we still are being conformed to Christs likeness. Has anyone arived yet at perfection?



Is their one here who has some area where they struggle and fail in? The scripture tells the Spirit struggles against the flesh and the flesh opposes the spirit and these are contrary to oneanother.



Paul gives us the example when he said the things I would do i do not and the things i would not do i do. Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be it to God through jesus.



Why worry about those who lack the maturity to be in a commited relationship? Why worry about those who claim christ and live in a state of darkness?



God will deal with them according to His timing you can count on that. Just focus on where God would have you to walk and His will for your life.



Isnt that enough to focus on? All else is irrelivent isnt it?





Blessings sister.

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Posted : 14 Jan, 2013 06:51 PM

lol even the wisest monkeys fall to traps i guess it's part of being human :bunny:

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Posted : 15 Jan, 2013 04:02 AM

Welcome to earth sister! :-) Home to wayward desires and serpents :laugh: Seriously though, if you put a diamond in mud and pull it out, then it'll be dirty and that's what happened to us.

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Posted : 18 Jan, 2013 12:14 AM

reedogg....dirty diamonds..... :) precious filth.... :D



~honesty is still the best policy~

its good to live life with integrity and no pretensions...

truth prevails in the end...

:)

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Posted : 14 Feb, 2013 09:39 AM

They are thinking "right now" how to get a quick result.

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