Author	Thread: So what is the deal??
Admin	So what is the deal?? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 09:09 PM I am always surprised, not sure why I am, but always surprised when I see a man my age, and he is wanting a woman who is 10 or more years younger than him.. Yesterday I read a mans profile who was my age, and still wanted a woman who could bare him 2 more babies??? And of course she would have to be no older than 42!! I'm like this is the age to be grandparents, so guys what gives with the older men still wanting to be Dad's over again? Post Reply
View Profile History	So what is the deal?? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 10:26 PM A man who wants a woman 10+ years younger has narrowed his demographic field, therefore he must enlarge his search parameters, I.e.: Internet dating sites. This creates a disproportionate number of single men wanting younger women because the man willing to accept a woman his own age doesn't stay single for long. On a side note:� At one time a 10+ difference in age was negligible, however women in this age group have predominately been raised to reject gender roles, while men 10+ years older were raised in a society where gender roles were the norm. This is why you see some men looking to other countries which posses a more traditional view concerning gender roles. As for why individuals want what they want; the reasons are endless. Post Reply
View Profile History	So what is the deal?? Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 10:32 PM Side note #2 : I personally know a number of divorced�men who have basically been robbed their children and the chance to be the Dad they always wanted to be. I think what you are seeing is a symptom of modern society. Post Reply
View Profile History	So what is the deal?? Posted : 22 Dec, 2012 06:38 AM From my observation of dating american women my age are in competition with men. Even in the church. As for me. I too am a man wanting more children. I was married twice to the same woman and she tore down our family with her own hands. I thought it was just me but the same things she did to me she now does to our daughter. It is unfortunite that our culture has destroyed women of the ability to raise a family with their husbands. Not sayin all women of America are such but it seems to become more the norm. So now I am starting all over again with a younger bride who has the ability to walk with me and certainly raise a family with me. I do take responsibility for choosing wrongly in the beginning due to my imaturity. But now I am confident I choose wisely after 2 years of relationship. Post Reply
Gourd00 View Profile History	So what is the deal?? Posted : 25 Dec, 2012 02:26 PM Could be that the guy is just a creeper who just wants the nice looking models around, or it could be that the guy hasn't had kids yet, or it could be that being a dad to young children allows that man to have a sense that he is worth something, because young children need him. Older children are better at taking care of themselves. Post Reply
View Profile History	So what is the deal?? Posted : 27 Dec, 2012 06:39 PM I think sparrows nailed it. It is not uncommon for women who divorce to withhold the children from their fathers except for strict minimum allowances by state laws in divorce cases. There are men who simply desire to be an in home father daily. Of course marrying a woman who already has children would allow for this to be accomplished but not exactly the same as having your own who are a connection between the man and his wife. Post Reply