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Admin	Does any guy know Posted : 17 Dec, 2012 04:06 AM The bible talks about keeping your virgin does well. Now their arent many virgins left especially those of us who are older. So men what are the benefits to refrain from sex with the women your with until marriage. Not just referring to intercourse but all sexual touching. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 17 Dec, 2012 07:01 AM I'd think a good one would to build trust for the future. If both can refrain from having sex with someone who is not their spouse when they're not married, then there is a working history for evidence that they would not have sex with someone who is not their spouse when they are married, regardless of mistakes before the relationship. Of course, that's not the only way to build trust or anything, it just seems like it could be one benefit. It's also always best to follow God's plan as a "protection", to avoid any unforeseen issues that could lead to a more chaotic and stress filled relationship(and possibly failure/separation). For instance, if a unplanned child enters the picture before "official" marriage, that can cause a pretty big issue in the lives of the couple and the extended family. And the honeymoon would be a less significant:goofball:. :peace::peace: Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 21 Dec, 2012 02:40 PM Just in case you were hoping for more responses, I'm pretty sure no one has said anything else because Mark hit the nail so squarely on the head. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 22 Dec, 2012 06:41 AM How do you think a woman would feel about a man refraining from intimate contact with her? Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 24 Dec, 2012 08:16 AM If she were in Christ, I would hope she would see the same wisdom in refraining from premarital sex. I don't think that means you can never touch each other before you're ready for marriage. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 26 Dec, 2012 04:04 AM What I mean is fondeling oneanother. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 26 Dec, 2012 04:36 AM Biblically it is wrong of course to commit fornication. It is highly frowned upon-- to the extend that Paul said "It is better to marry, than to burn." If you are not married to someone, then of course you should not be fondling, "molesting :ROFL: " them or other sexual related activities, such as kissing because it will lead to that one thing. Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 26 Dec, 2012 09:54 PM Slow your rolls there, Jackie Joyner-Kersee. There are plenty of Christians out there who kiss not only without having sex but without getting inappropriately handsy as well. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 26 Dec, 2012 10:57 PM The benefits are that you remain pure in the eyes of God and not living in sin. Why touch in a sexual way because in a man all this does is starts the sparks to a sexual fire in our minds and it is hard for a guy to stop especially if the woman is helping to feed the flames. The benfit is you live with much more integrity and high moral standards to wait for marriage. If you dont wait is fornication which is sin. Not opinion this is fact from the bible. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 30 Dec, 2012 12:29 PM [quote] Tulip: Slow your rolls there, Jackie Joyner-Kersee. There are plenty of Christians out there who kiss not only without having sex but without getting inappropriately handsy as well. [/quote] Well i believe it depends on what type of kiss it is, and in what context. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does any guy know Posted : 31 Dec, 2012 02:22 AM What you are really afraid of is that when for the first time you do kiss after marriage and you have a really bad breath, then the other might have second thoughts. Post Reply

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