Author	Thread: When a guy says.....
Admin	When a guy says..... Posted : 1 Dec, 2012 07:09 AM There are things guys say that don't give women a definitive answer, so what does it mean when a guys says these things?? * When a guy says....."I'm taking a step back but I still wanna hang out some time" * When a guy says....."I still wanna keep hanging out and doing what we're doing but I have to back off because I'm not over my ex" *When a guy says....how beautiful you are and uses endearments before he even knows your name *When a guy says......"sure, maybe some day" *When a guy says......"you can call if you want to" *when a guy says......"I'm hanging out with my buddies tonight but you can text if you want" Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 1 Dec, 2012 07:57 AM Dear Colts Guru, for what its worth, all these sixsome sixes, don't and shouldn't make any recipient feel a bit happy! First: * When a guy says....."I'm taking a step back but I still wanna hang out some time" - Complete unsuredness. Its a state of mind that says, I have a lot to think through, though for now, nothing still seems discovered wrong about you (so like some kind of "save up till now, but am watching!), but i still got some work to do to decisively place you!" Second: * When a guy says....."I still wanna keep hanging out and doing what we're doing but I have to back off because I'm not over my ex" - Please its the simplest. Can you smell the ghost of yesterday? Cos I do! And why must the Ghost of yesterday scare you now? try and find a nearest exit. He has decision to make. Don't you think? I am not judgmental, but I think its insulting! If he is not done or over his/her ex, then let him/her keep it inward! However, there are time, when a partner might be un-over his ex, and in such few occurrences, he will seek your understanding to help him/her out. It will be both of you playing the healing together. Not you getting bashed in the face with an ex-memory not erased! Third: *When a guy says....how beautiful you are and uses endearments before he even knows your name - Well a lot of guys but will not always be the same. While some are harmless, many others are not so un-harmful. And ladies generally from a million miles can smell the rat! So since the guy may mean harm or not, it behooves you to do some further check to ascertain the real state of his mind. Cleverly, if such endearment before too long begin to gravitate towards uneasy or impolite gestures, you got your answers...just F-L-E-E! And where you dont flee, how about a STAND-YOUR-GROUND kinda! Fourth: *When a guy says......"sure, maybe some day" - It is as it sound...Sure some day we see how it goes or sure someday we get it right or sure someday we together be on that highway....but for now, we are not Fifth: *When a guy says......"you can call if you want to" - The decision is yours. I am not really involved. Its your choice..Call if you want to..Most likely when that had been done by a guy at one time or the other, it had come from the heart that is saying, " you are not the prime thing now, but I cant stop you from calling, can i?" Sixth: *when a guy says......"I'm hanging out with my buddies tonight but you can text if you want - Same as the fifth, but sometimes its not as bad as said! Bottom line on that is, if it were a a good said, then it will come with some tone of respect and maybe explanation.....but when its close ended and dry and your input is not requested on that "king's edict", then do you smell what I smell? Post Reply
View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 02:21 AM It basically means, he's not into you. Simples. Post Reply
View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 07:05 AM When a guy says....."I'm taking a step back but I still wanna hang out some time" It means I am to much a wimp to tell you the truth. Im afraid. * When a guy says....."I still wanna keep hanging out and doing what we're doing but I have to back off because I'm not over my ex" It means Im divided and could never give you any commitment. *When a guy says....how beautiful you are and uses endearments before he even knows your name Means Im trying to manipulate you. *When a guy says......"sure, maybe some day" Means I can not commit to anything and would want to lead you on with some hope. *When a guy says......"you can call if you want to" Means I dont know how to lead a relationship. *when a guy says......"I'm hanging out with my buddies tonight but you can text if you want" Means I am unsure how to manage my priorities. All of these phrase are of a man who is unsure, afraid, unable to lead and a looser. Stay away from such men...... Post Reply
View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 02:20 PM Wow, what's most shocking to me is that those were all things said to me by good Christian men, one of them whom I attend church with. So now it makes sense why I'm 27 and single. Post Reply
View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 02:22 PM Wow, what's most shocking to me is that those were all things said to me by good Christian men, one of them whom I attend church with. So now it makes sense why I'm 27 and single. Post Reply
View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 2 Dec, 2012 02:28 PM Wow, what's most shocking to me is that those were all things said to me by good Christian men, one of them whom I attend church with. So now it makes sense why I'm 27 and single. Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 3 Dec, 2012 03:43 AM Colt Guru, maybe you are overrating. It can happen to anybody. Dont forget a Christian man too has a mind of his own too. He also thinks. He also go wrong if he fails to watch his tracks, and he also does the right many of the times. So please do not ever think a christian man can not make wrong choice when it comes to relationships. And that's why we need to be led of God out of the rail tracks of offenses. Have you ever given these verse a thought? Luke 17:1 Then said he to the disciples, It is impossible but that offenses will come: but woe to him, through whom they come!? Please be rest assured God has a plan for you. I believe now you can see an overwhelmingly strong admonishing from members of these threads telling you those lines portend unpleasantness! Post Reply
View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 3 Dec, 2012 03:50 PM Philipian makes good points as usual. If you keep hearing them from the same person then they're probably not 100% ready for a relationship - if you're hearing them from everyone you date then check yourself! I have to respectfully disagree with LTM's assessment - he's not wrong as such, but if you've got a relationship going would you jeopardize it over a single remark without digging a little deeper? What I'm saying is that men, contrary to popular belief, are not necessarily born leaders or have everything worked out just yet; and especially when dealing with the opposite sex where different points will be picked up on to those intended so push for an explanation if needed. Post Reply
Philipian View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 4 Dec, 2012 10:57 AM Again DKJ255, I had to admit that to you again that its profound coming from you second time in a row this single night. Like you said and which is true, not everyone has got the map in his hand completely all read out, so that with his/her eyes closed can lead his way home. If care is not taken, man born again (and not born again as well) can rail-bend and be thrown of course in his dealings. That's why the child of God must persistently allow his reasoning to be ruled by the Spirit and the Word of God One personal rule of thumb I give myself is NEVER TALK WHEN YOUR HEAD IS TALKING. Give room for the HEART and the SPIRIT to COMMUNE...Many of us talk at the most VULNERABLE time. And of course we go off guard and soon, carnage we create! If a man is unsure of his feelings, let him bridle himself till he has summed his acts together, else some hearts nearby will be broken. Post Reply
View Profile History	When a guy says..... Posted : 10 Dec, 2012 03:14 PM They like you but are to scared of you rejecting them Post Reply

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